Just Wondering Posted December 16, 2002 Posted December 16, 2002 Hi there..how do you know if a male coworker likes you (I'm a female :-))..what are the signs..also what are the signs that they don't have a romantic interest in you?? Anygood advice would help>>Thanks
Tony T Posted December 16, 2002 Posted December 16, 2002 1. "how do you know if a male coworker likes you (I'm a female :-))" The workplace is no different than any other place. Use your female intuition. If you haven't accessed that yet, you better start. Men will smile at you, go out of their way to pass you or be near you, strike up conversations, arrange their schedule so they get off work the same time as you and are walking with you on the way to their car. Really brave men will ask you if you're seeing anybody. If a guy likes you, you should know that intuitively. 2. "what are the signs." I just gave those to you. 3. "also what are the signs that they don't have a romantic interest in you?? They never ask you out on a date...or once they've dated you a few times they don't ever call you back. At the office, they just continue treating you like a friend or buddy. Again, if the average guy is interested in you romantically, you should know it...for sure!
Just Wondering Posted December 16, 2002 Posted December 16, 2002 Thanks for the advice...Tony... " Men will smile at you, go out of their way to pass you or be near you, strike up conversations, arrange their schedule so they get off work the same time as you and are walking with you on the way to their car. Really brave men will ask you if you're seeing anybody." --He's done all that..but he hasn't asked me if i was daten anybody,although i did casualy mention i wasn't as did he. . "also what are the signs that they don't have a romantic interest in you?? They never ask you out on a date...or once they've dated you a few times they don't ever call you back. At the office, they just continue treating you like a friend or buddy. Any other ideas? ---He hasn't asked me out or for my phone#, NOTHING?? ..thats why i'm not sure..seems like he's into me but there's been no follow through??
Just Wondering Posted December 16, 2002 Posted December 16, 2002 He's never asked me out or for my phone number, or about my love life, although he's done everything else you said
HokeyReligions Posted December 16, 2002 Posted December 16, 2002 What is the company policy on dating co-workers? Maybe he's interested but can't because of policy. Maybe he just enjoys flirting.
Just Wondering Posted December 16, 2002 Posted December 16, 2002 They don't care if we date..they were even encouraging me to hook up for a while
HokeyReligions Posted December 16, 2002 Posted December 16, 2002 Why don't you ask him? It doesn't even have to be a real date - just ask if he wants to go to lunch together. Or casually ask him if he'd like to get together for a drink or coffee after work. To me, getting a "no" answer would be better than wondering.
Just Wondering Posted December 16, 2002 Posted December 16, 2002 Well we do actually eat lunch together but he hasn't asked for my number or anything and its been a couple of months..just wasn't sure if i was just a "coworker" or what?
Debster Posted December 17, 2002 Posted December 17, 2002 Maybe he does like you but he doesn't want to dip his pen in the company ink, so to speak. Some men will never get involved with someone they work with no matter how attracted they might be.
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