Freedom Now Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 In that case, it should be easy for an OW to get a copy. Touche! You're pretty witty this morning, herenow! :lmao:
herenow Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Touche! You're pretty witty this morning, herenow! :lmao: I learned from the masters.
outofdarkness Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 I think the script must be stored in their pants. LoLLLLLL thnks for my first chuckle of the day!
Salicious Crumb Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Sometimes they leave, sometimes they don't. If he loves you and sincerely wants to be with you then he'll leave the marriage.. And wouldn't that just be a happy ending?....another broken home. How wonderful.
Izzar Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 And wouldn't that just be a happy ending?....another broken home. How wonderful. SC, Openingday needs to have a convo with you. He's sadly mistaken in his thought process of leaving his marriage "in time". Anyway, OD is gone now. Oh well. Just thought you'd be able to post some sense into his head.
shellys-trying Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 LoLLLLLL thnks for my first chuckle of the day! In my best Elvis impersonation... "Thank you...thank you very much!":cool:
Salicious Crumb Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 SC, Openingday needs to have a convo with you. He's sadly mistaken in his thought process of leaving his marriage "in time". Anyway, OD is gone now. Oh well. Just thought you'd be able to post some sense into his head. Nah..people like that only care about one thing...themselves and getting "theirs". Nothing I say will get them to think about the pain they cause other people.
herenow Posted April 4, 2007 Posted April 4, 2007 Nah..people like that only care about one thing...themselves and getting "theirs". Nothing I say will get them to think about the pain they cause other people. True, true, true!
puddleofmud Posted April 5, 2007 Posted April 5, 2007 Welcome to the forum! Should a divorce actually be on the "horizon"? "Horizon" doesn't give a guarantee nor time frame, but rather would describe something very far off/ distant. As well, a couple w/ a two year old are incredibly busy people! It is doubtful that either have too much time to consider much other than day to day details which are actually about soley concentrating on the details of parenthood and marriage. It is highly doubtful a man with a two year old would leave a marriage--factually, he wouldn't be able to find the time between his wife, a demanding toddler, his job (and an OW). AND, perhaps, he is merely escaping two of the three because he is immature in dealing with all this. It's classic MM behavior and his excuses are whimsical and predictable. I agree w/ what others have stated: send him back PERMANENTLY to his lair for him to deal with his own crap. As long as he can have someone else who does it for him he will never grow up and take responsibility for his actions in life. What would you prefer? A MAN or a BOY?
outofdarkness Posted April 5, 2007 Posted April 5, 2007 In my best Elvis impersonation... "Thank you...thank you very much!":cool: i love elvis!! sorry for the thread highjack...i know it's serious subj...
pureinheart Posted April 8, 2007 Posted April 8, 2007 I met a man about 6 months ago... we exchanged numbers and talked and texted ofen...found we had a lot in common and got along really well, but he is a married man of 5 years with one 2 year old daughter. He expressed to me his unhappiness and his situation and that a divorce was on the horizon. For a long time I refused to get physical with him and surprisingly he didn't protest...over the months we got closer and closer and i feel a real connection with him...our relationship progressed naturally and he tells me that he's in love with me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I feel he genuinly cares about me. But he also made these vows to another woman...he says he didn't know what love was until he met me and he didn't feel this way about his wife when he met her. We didn't get physical until last week...I don't feel upset about this besides the fact that he has a wife at home. He told her about meand she still wants to be with him. He still acts the same way he always has towards me but more loving and more affectionate and more romantic. I have other opportunities to date other men but for some reason i feel completly drawn towards this one...I don't know what to do ..I've never had these kinds of feelings before. Hey Guest, I know I am way late in the game with this reply, and have only read the first page of this thread. Save yourself and walk, and do not look back. This MM and many others have said things that "appear" so sincere and truthful.... The fact is, once they think they have caught you and will play the "oh poor me, my marriage is so horrible, but you make it all better" game with them.....they will say or do anything to keep you "caught". You walk away thinking he loves you, and he's thinking quite the opposite and is happy about the fact that he has gotten away with it. The goal is to keep you and his W, if this were not the truth he would have left her in the beginning, and would have not started anything with you until he was completely free....this would be the respectful thing to do for both you and his W (or ex-W). I hope all works out for you:)
vanilla chai Posted April 8, 2007 Posted April 8, 2007 What's with people who can't handle a little deferral when a child is young? How needy are you that you can't lose a little attention when there's a little one who needs her more? Sorry, mini rant. If he's honest about the divorce pending, he can wait until it's a done deal. Please read the threads in the OW/OM forum for the results of an affair with a married man. Most never leave their wives, using their children as the excuse. ITA TBF!!! Most of these men are all about me me me and what they need.
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