Guest Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 I have a really good relationship (or so I think), with my bf of half a year, but after reading all the rebound topics on here, I'm starting to feel a bit insecure... My bf basically had a full-on fling (before he met me) with some chick that lasted only a few weeks, and when they parted, they somehow agreed on some gray terms that they would still be together in an LDR. Enter me. I didn't know at first that he had a girl (he also acted in a way that everyone thought he was single...then when he started acting weird when I started advancing on him, I guessed there was more to it), so when I found out, I backed off and let him decide (this was after, however, quite complex feelings had developed, at least for me). She came to visit and he told her it was over...she was naturally pissed but I don't think she knows about me. He started going out with me straight after her visit ended, and we have been going extremely well so far. However, we basically got quite serious very early on into our relationship. At first I thought this might be a problem, especially since only a few months ago he was with someone else like this after just meeting them and barely knowing them, but I don't feel that this has complicated our relationship in any way or hindered it. I just don't get how you can sleep with someone so fast without really knowing them and then expect to carry on some relationship over continents and oceans and say you were "in love" but then say admit you didn't even really know the person. So does this 2 week fling (I honestly cannot help calling it this because it just seems ridiculous to call it a proper relationship!) vs. our 6 month relationship hold any ground? Is it a rebound? Should I be worried? :S (FYI: He's also blocked her on his MSN since they "broke up").
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