Kelso Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 Hello everybody - I'm finally getting back on my feet after a breakup over 5 months ago. I met this girl in the beginning of the year through a toxic friend of mine. I'll come to that later. I actually started to like her and she showed a lot of interest until one day when she told me that she didn't thought that "it wasn't gonna happen". Well, life sucks sometimes ... but you just have to face it. However we still remained good friends and we meet often each week as I met her through my friend. For the past weeks I've been noticing them getting closer and closer but don't appear serious, at least not in front of me. Well, today he forgot his cell phone in my car. An excellent opportunity for me to check his messages. I know it's wrong, but I don't give a damn as he is my best friend and best friends are allowed to do that kind of stuff. Well, I don't have to speculate anymore. I found a lot of "come to my place" ... and "you horny little bastard" text messages from her in his inbox. I must admit that I was kind of shocked even though I thought it might be the case. I actually don't give a damn if he's sleeping with a girl I was dating. What hurts the most is that he hasn't bothered telling me. So my best friend, the guy who is supposed to be my wing man is now the guy I can't trust when it comes to girls. I'm sad to say, but he looks really good, a CalvinKleinmodel-good, and he is probably the biggest player in the whole city. And it is often really difficult to get a girls attention when he's around. My other problem are my other friends. One has moved to another country, two of them to another city and two of them are having babies later this year. So there isn't much of a help from those guy when it comes to finding a woman. So I ask you guys. Where should I look for a decent women, knowing that I can't trust my best friend any more. It's so difficult socializing alone with other people. Nobody goes alone to a bar or anywhere. Or maybe I'm just not very good at it. Any comment will be appreciated Kelso
RecordProducer Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 It's illegal for you to date decent females. They are under age 15.
fallendisguise Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 My first thought is, if he is your best friend, why the hell didn't he tell you that he was hooking up with your ex?????? I don't know if it is the same with guys, but there is a rule of thumb for women... at least the ones I know... you don't hook up with your friends ex or even a guy they were interested in. The second half is only ok if you've asked if it would bother them and even that is pushing it. You just don't do it. Period. As far as where to find a decent woman, I don't know. I think you just have to put yourself out there to meet people and try your best to screen them. It almost seems awful that nowadays you have to do that. I frequent the clubs a lot, but I know not to meet guys there. They are after "you know what." But, I don't know if the same holds true for women. I'm a decent one and I go a lot. I would think that you could figure out what you do for fun and join a group. Like softball or volunteering or something???? I know this doesn't help, but my main point is to put yourself out there and get to really know someone before you jump into anything. Then, you'll know if you have a decent woman or not.
DanielMadr Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 I frequent the clubs a lot, but I know not to meet guys there. They are after "you know what." What? Its very rare actually. Nobody is doing it but all believe it. This antagonism is really a pain in the behind.
bridget_jones Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 Church is what I've heard....l am not into getting up on Sunday mornings though.
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