Guest Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 My boyfriend (fiancé) Ryan and I have only been together for 3.5 months. Yes, 3 months. It was a whirlwind sort of thing and we were both totally infatuated. We fell totally in love with each other and it was pretty much the best feeling in the world. He is 26, I am 22. One unfortunate day two weeks ago, we got into an argument because of my extreme insecurity. It just hit me one day when I saw a bunch of girls' phone numbers that he had called in his phone. Everything was perfect before that and in the last couple weeks, things have just been getting worse. The anxiety about our relationship got so bad that I made the huge mistake of going to his office and yelling at him. Well, not yelling, just crying. I left and waited for him. We sat in the parking lot and talked about it for two hours. He said I would have to stop, he loves me but he can't stand seeing me so sad all the time. That was yesterday. So afterwards, he went and got wasted drunk. He called me wasted, happy as can be, and told me he loved me sooo much and he was coming over to see me. He stumbled in my house drunk and my roommate had to wake up at the crack of dawn, so she told him to leave. I told him it would probably be a good idea, but I could drive him home if he wanted. He said "*&%# IT!" and called me about fifteen times telling me he couldn't BELIEVE I hadn't stood up for him, he could have died going home, even after I told him I would take him there. Then he called me at 4 a.m. and told me he wanted all of his stuff back. So, at promptly 9 a.m. this morning, after a restless evening, I drove to his house and told him to take all his crap. He told me to come sleep the rest of the morning with him. I told him I loved him and he didn't say anything. I asked him if he really wanted to leave me and he shrugged. After awhile, I just left. I called him later today and asked him how he was, he told me he loved me and things were just weird and he was still upset with me. Then he told me he wanted to see me later, so we could hang out because he misses me. What's the deal? Love Anna
lorr Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 The deal is, is that the both of you need to grow up!!
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