TJB Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 I need some insight: I met a man about a year ago who was honest and upfront with me by telling me that he was in the middle of a divorce, had been seperated from his wife for three years and that she was dragging the divorce out. His story about the seperation and divorce turned out to be true. So once we started dating I insisted that he get a new lawyer to rush things along b/c I wanted a serious relationship that could lead to marriage and he said he did also. But nothing with the divorce made things easy, and life seemed to get stressful so we broke up for a total of five days. Well, he ended things with me. Only to call me the same night and tell me he made a terrible mistake. So we are back together again and things have been better mostly b/c I have not been pushing serious issues or topics about marriage and such. He says he wants to marry me but can't until his divorce is final and that he does not want to move forward until then. Finally there is a mediation date set which makes me feel 100 times better. She seems eager to hurry up with this divorce also. My only concern is if he really wants to marry me or if he is just stringing me along using me for the immediate moment. I mean we live together and I feel like I do a lot for him and I have a lot going for myself I just sometimes question his intentions. I s he making excuses or does he truly love and want to be with me. Is this a personal issue that I need to deal with or are my feelings warranted. How can I tell his true intentions. Thanks
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