luvtoto Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Well, he called tonight. We had an 'ok' conversation, until the part where I told him that I shoot the bull with my boss and John at work. They are like family to me. We are always flippin' each other **** at work. It was weird, because he said, "Why would you shoot the bull with your boss? I said, that it passes the day faster. I am thinking to myself.. what a strange question. He seemed jealous, and then got quiet. The phone conversation was then abruptly over. He then told ME to call him sometime, without any hint as to a next date. Hahahahaahahahah! That is sooo weird. That's fine, cause #1. he's the jealous type, #2. expects me to chase him because he's rich, #3. spoiled little rich boy that needs to brag about his money constantly.
Art_Critic Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Are you sure you didn't say " making your boss shoot and flipping get him off ? " It sounds like it was an odd not flowing conversation.. Well.. at least you know.. jealousy is a horrible trait to have.. good riddens..
Pyro Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 What a weirdo......... I understand that we are all different, but that is just a little too odd. Good riddance to him indeed. Back to the old drawing board. At least you didn't grow any real feelings for him before this happened.
amaysngrace Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Uh oh...a stall in the conversation like that is not a sign of compatibility. So I guess you aren't gonna call him, huh?
tragicglands Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Good riddance to him indeed. I'm wondering... if you really, really like a girl (or guy, whatever your preference), do you want to give them a good riddance? Or is it the other way around??
tragicglands Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Uh oh...a stall in the conversation like that is not a sign of compatibility. Wrong. Normally that void would be "filled" with sex.
mike7070 Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Move on and be happy......your getting more experienced..... amaysngrace.....I see we're neighbors
Storyrider Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 He sounds sort of awkward and socially inept. That is what I thought also when I read your account of your date with him. Maybe this explains why he has been single for so long.
tanbark813 Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Maybe this explains why he has been single for so long. Isn't luvtoto 11 years older than him?
Storyrider Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Isn't luvtoto 11 years older than him? I might have missed that. How old is he, luvtoto?
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Well, he called tonight. We had an 'ok' conversation, until the part where I told him that I shoot the bull with my boss and John at work. They are like family to me. We are always flippin' each other **** at work. It was weird, because he said, "Why would you shoot the bull with your boss? I said, that it passes the day faster. I am thinking to myself.. what a strange question. He seemed jealous, and then got quiet. The phone conversation was then abruptly over. He then told ME to call him sometime, without any hint as to a next date. Hahahahaahahahah! That is sooo weird. That's fine, cause #1. he's the jealous type, #2. expects me to chase him because he's rich, #3. spoiled little rich boy that needs to brag about his money constantly. We dont talk about other men/women with potential lover. Especially when the other men/women were fun. Period. You should know that. It is childish and what I would think of you: 'Is she trying to make me jealous? Is she 16yo playing with me? Testing me? Oh'. You lost some points here. OK. He could handle it better but with your attitude of 'spoiled rich boys' I bet it was more then innocent remark you made about the boss.
Author luvtoto Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 Are you sure you didn't say " making your boss shoot and flipping get him off ? " Well, I could have said that and it would have got the same reaction from him. At least you didn't grow any real feelings for him before this happened. No, I don't fall easily. Except for guys who wear green masks. Can't resisit that. Uh oh...a stall in the conversation like that is not a sign of compatibility. So I guess you aren't gonna call him, huh? Yea, that wasn't the only awkward stall between us. Not much compatibility. He's not down to earth like me. Which is fine! Just not what I am interested in. I'm wondering... if you really, really like a girl (or guy, whatever your preference), do you want to give them a good riddance? Or is it the other way around?? Wha? Not following. We were just at the "getting to know each other" phase of dating. Whatever feelings I had for him, were diminished by our incompatibility. Normally that void would be "filled" with sex. What is sex?? Move on and be happy......your getting more experienced..... amaysngrace.....I see we're neighbors I will. I am a fairly happy, cup-half-full type person anyways. Thanks, neighbor! He sounds sort of awkward and socially inept. That is what I thought also when I read your account of your date with him. Maybe this explains why he has been single for so long. I agree, Storyrider. Isn't luvtoto 11 years older than him? Can I smack you now? For the record, when I worked as a bartender last year, everyone thought I was 28. I might have missed that. How old is he, luvtoto? He is 28. However, I do not have one wrinkle yet. Check out my profile. We dont talk about other men/women with potential lover. Especially when the other men/women were fun. Period. You should know that. It is childish and what I would think of you: 'Is she trying to make me jealous? Is she 16yo playing with me? Testing me? Oh'. You lost some points here. OK. He could handle it better but with your attitude of 'spoiled rich boys' I bet it was more then innocent remark you made about the boss. Excuse me, but if I lose points for just being myself...then, so be it. I am not going to *pretend* to be someone I am not. I shoot the **** with my boss, therefore I am.
Porn_Guy Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 That's fine, cause #1. he's the jealous type, #2. expects me to chase him because he's rich, #3. spoiled little rich boy that needs to brag about his money constantly. ...i told you so
amaysngrace Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 amaysngrace.....I see we're neighbors where you at homey? I'm in cape may county.
Moose Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 ...i told you soOh yeah? I think I did too! "Barrett", ; spoiled, bi-tendancies; but strong family background......don't ask me how I know...I only wanted luvtoto to land a man who has money, not one who worships it......tough break.....
Author luvtoto Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 where you at homey? I'm in cape may county. I thought you were talking to me. Der-d-der!
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 What if he told you 'I was fishing with my secretary, she is so much fun.' I think you would consider it at least rude and rightly so.
Art_Critic Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 We dont talk about other men/women with potential lover. True.. but why would you group her boss and coworker with someone who is a potential lover ? A boss is NOT a potential lover..
Author luvtoto Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 ...i told you so Yes, you are validated now. Ya know, I talked after our date with one of my friends that gave him such an outstanding reference. I kept telling her that he was such and such, and he did such and such. And, basically, I apologized for thinking he was a jerk. She then, fessed up and told me that she DID think he was an *******. But, she saw how excited I was, that she wasn't gonna ruin it for me. She trusted me to figure it out on my own. Which I did. She did say that if went out on a few more dates, she would eventually let me in on how she felt about him, and what to look out for.
Art_Critic Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 What if he told you 'I was fishing with my secretary, she is so much fun.' I think you would consider it at least rude and rightly so. That would not be rude in that context..
Porn_Guy Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Yes, you are validated now. . ....he's too young & immature for you anyways.
Author luvtoto Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 What if he told you 'I was fishing with my secretary, she is so much fun.' I think you would consider it at least rude and rightly so. I think you are just "fishing" for a debate. I hear your point, DanielMadr. However, I don't agree with it.
tanbark813 Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 A boss is NOT a potential lover.. Oh yeah? Read some of the infidelity threads.
Art_Critic Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Oh yeah? Read some of the infidelity threads. I hear ya.. but what I meant was that a boss isn't someone that you need to watch because he will steal your girl.. it isn't like the guy is a stripper that gets paid to seduce women I mean if we split hairs then any guy would be a potential lover ( which is true ). so why split hairs ? Someone should be able to talk about other people in their lives to a first date or the first few dates without making the other jealous.. What kind of a person gets jealous of someone they don't even know yet ?
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 What kind of a person gets jealous of someone they don't even know yet ? Person who is romantically interested in him/her gets jealous. On first date we speak about ourselves not about other specific people which might be potentional competition.
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