Jordan51 Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Well heres the scoop, I last saw my g/f in person on Saturday when I visited her at work all was well we hung out while she was on break. Anyway I called her the following day which was Sunday, we chatted for a bit and she told me to call her on Monday. So on monday I call her at around 2pm and 10 o'clock rolls around and still no call. Anyways I caught her on MSN that night and i noticed she was being very straight to the point and not attempting to make conversation. Midway through the conversation she apoligizes for being so quiet and then nearing the end she asks if I had a bad day which I replied yes to for various work reasons and she said well its that time of the month for me so i guess you beat me to it. Shortly after she said she had to go and that she will talk to me later and went offline. Anyways it is now wednesday and I've texted her on monday. tuesday, and actually called her today with no responses at all. I've had no contact with her since sunday. Is this normal? like i know she needs her space right now and all but like she didnt even text or call me for a quick second. Am i just worrying to much or is this normal? what should i do?
gfto Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Sounds like she has lost interest in you. Has she said anything to you about taking "time out" or something like that?
Guest Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 nope, last time we hung out everything was perfectly fine! like i know when a girls on her period things can get pretty emotional but like even a simple call doesnt take too much time. so should i just end this? i've only been seeing her for a month
Guest Y Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 I agree she is backing off for some reason. Either call and straight out ask her what's up (and don't let her get away answering with anything that still leaves you in confusion) or if don't want to take that chance yet then leave her alone until she contacts you. In the meantime live your life and don't wait around.
fallendisguise Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 I agree she is backing off for some reason. Either call and straight out ask her what's up (and don't let her get away answering with anything that still leaves you in confusion) or if don't want to take that chance yet then leave her alone until she contacts you. In the meantime live your life and don't wait around. I also agree, she is backing off. And seeing as I'm female, I can tell you it could be for any number of reasons. However, I don't think her being at "that time of the month" would make her back off, maybe a little emotional and needing reassurance, but backing off, no. I'm thinking that maybe you said something that didn't "jive" well with her. Or maybe she is second guessing where the relationship is going. I have a tendency to back off when I feel that I am too emotionally involved and the guy isn't. But reading your post, you seem to really care and are very interested, so I would assume that she knows as much. So yes, ask her point blank. Tell her how you feel and see what she says. The leaving her alone until she contacts you could backfire. Especially, if she feels more emotionally invested than you and that is why she is backing off. In her mind, it will only confirm that she is right and she will continue to do so. I would try to contact her, if she doesn't answer, leave her a message saying something about how you care... I miss talking to you.. can't wait to hear from you... haven't heard from you and are worried that things aren't going okay with you...etc. If she continues to ignore you after that, then leave it. There is only so much you can do without being met in the middle.
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