JLADY Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Where To Begin..a Few Months Ago I Was Living With My Bf Of 1 Year At Time . We Had Just Relocated To A New State In Search Of A New Beginning For Our Future. Both Starting New Jobs We Didn't Really See Eachother As Much And It Began To Take A Toll On Us. Soon Enough Other Issues Came About On His Side, Stating How Unhappy He Was Where We Were, And Also He Had Problems With His Other Children Back Home. He Began Spending All His Time Down There, And I Was Trying My Best To Be Supportive Of Him. A Couple Months Went By And We Founf Out That I Was Pregnant. Although, Unexpected We Had Spoke About Our Plans If This Were To Ever Happen. Being My First Pregancy I Was So Excited And Hope He Would Be As Well, But He Didn't Seem To Be. Shortly After Finidng Out The News He Still Felt It Was Necessary To Go Back Home And Take Care His Business. A Day Or Two Later He Was Gone. I Was Devastated, Couldn't Believe He Could Leave Me At Such A Time. I Knew Others Needed Him Down There As Well, But What About Me? Soon Every Conversation Was An Argument, And I Accepted The Fact He Proabaly Wasn't Coming Back. So I Did What I Thought Was Best For Me. I Continued To Work And Try To Put Things Together And Get Ready For What I Was About To Face. Then One Day A Co-worker Of Mine Approached Me At Work, We Had Spoken On/off But I Never Looked At Him In That Manner Becuz He Was A Mm. It Was A Shock, My First Inital Thought Was He Just Wanted What All Men Want. He Came By The House One Day To Drop Some Things Off, And That's Where It All Began. He Seemed To Never Leave After That , He Was So Sweet Understanding And Attended To My Every Need. Knowing His Situation I Never Really Asked Much Questions. He Told Me That He Hadn't Been Happy In Awhile, And That He Was Thinking On Leaving Her For Me. Again I Was Shocked, I Knew I Had Feelings For Him But Never To Go This Far. By That Time I Had Arranged To Move Up To My Fathers 6hrs. Away. He Said He Would Come With Me So We Could Be Together. He Said He Had Confessed Everything To Her, And Explained His Plans For The Future. Awhile Later I Moved And We Kept In Touch Everyday, Making Arrangements For His Arrival. Then It Happened, I Got A Phone Call From The Misses Telling Me That Everyhitng He Had Been Telling Me Was A Lie. We Spent An Hour Going Back/ Forth W/ Stories Of Him. I Couldn't Believe It, I Eventulaly Changed My Number And Asked Him Not To Call. During This Time I Had Reconciled Things With My Ex-bf. Now He Has Been Calling Every Few Days Wanting To Know How I Am. He Keeps Saying We Should Put Things Back Together, And He Wants To Be A Family. And Of Course As You Guessed It The Mm Has Found His Way Back In The Pic Also. Although Yes He Still Lives With His Wife, But Assures Me That He Still Loves Me And Is Trying His Best To Continue What We Started, And That It Is Officially Over Between Them. I Don't Know What To Believe. I Am In Love With The Mm Still, But I Have Love For My Kids Father As Well. Do I Sacrifice My Real Love To Do The Right Thing And Be A Faimily, Eventhough I Don't Think I'm In Love With That Person?
Izzar Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 There is nothing wrong with being a family with just you & your children. A happy family at that.
Seen_It_All Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 Jeez, both of these guys are CLASS A LOSERS. I wouldn't let either one of them walk my dog, much less put an ounce of trust in them. Firstly, the MM is a selfish pig. Period. He's nothing but a lying SCUM who did NOTHING but lie to you. Why would you want this parasite back? How can you have ANY love for some scumbag who lied to you like that? Painting a false reality for you, painting a false reality for his wife, and being a huge ball-less coward because his WIFE had to tell you what a scumbag he is. I wouldn't even spit on that piece of garbage much less even CONSIDER him back in my life. I ask this in all seriousness - what is WRONG with you?
pricillia Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 Jeez, both of these guys are CLASS A LOSERS. I wouldn't let either one of them walk my dog, much less put an ounce of trust in them. Firstly, the MM is a selfish pig. Period. He's nothing but a lying SCUM who did NOTHING but lie to you. Why would you want this parasite back? How can you have ANY love for some scumbag who lied to you like that? Painting a false reality for you, painting a false reality for his wife, and being a huge ball-less coward because his WIFE had to tell you what a scumbag he is. I wouldn't even spit on that piece of garbage much less even CONSIDER him back in my life. I ask this in all seriousness - what is WRONG with you? Oh my... the two gentlemen that you are currently involved leave something to be desired. I don't think I would let them pet sit much less let them make me dinner. First off the MM is no better then a piece of pork! Exclamation point. He is none the less not telling you the truth which by definition could make him a little less then perfect, which means that yes he did lie to you. You may want to ask your self if you want him in your life as you may become connected to a leach. How can you have any feelings for a man you was dishonest? All the time sketching up an eraseable pic for you, and also drawing up another erasable pic on another page for his wife. blah blah blah... I ask in all seriousness why are you OW just not listening to me, I am right all of the time... I have been there and done that.. so learn through me because I have seen it all...
Guest Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 Thanks For The Replies And Blunt Honesty, I Think I Needed. Sometimes You Need It Thrown In Your Own Face For Self Realization. Recently I Have Cut Most Contact With Mm. My Ex Still Calls Once In Awhile, But I'm Staring To Realize Its Full Of Empty Words And Broken Promises. Thanks For The Input Again!
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