lostchia06 Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 I'll keep this short... So me and my guy have been together for about 10ish months and we're having A Lot of problems lately and I don't know if I should just chalk it up to me just being frustrated because he lost his job a couple of months ago or if there's a bigger issue. I just get upset because he seems to not have a problem with mooching off of me or his friends when he wants something and has only gone on 1 job interview since he lost his old one. I recently just find myself constantly arguing with him about the most random stuff like the amount of time we spend together or how much he watches TV or how he finds plently of time to go to the bars with his friend. I just need to know if I'm being unreasonable or if this might be the beginning of the end. Please leave any advice or ask any questions
manders0724 Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Me and my present BF have been through this also. One of us not having a job, and the other supporting with their job. It isnt a big deal to me cuz when he doesnt have a job, i support him, when i dont, he supports me. However, if it has been months and only one interview, maybe he is enjoying the freedom you are giving him a little too much. Tell him to start looking for a job or you wont support him anymore. You being his supporter could also be why you are mad at him so much. I mean he has time to drink, hang out with friends, but not look fr a job? I see where you are coming from and I think that if you want your relationship to work then you need to stop supporting him
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