Questioner. Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Q:Difference on personal principle and behavior in a couple, for the long run, is it something can be overcome? Just cut to the chase, me and my boyfriend have been together for a little bit over a year, I love him so much, and I have thought of he is a person who I can spend my life with. For me, I find him as a great guy. Being a bystander, definitely find him is a lovable guy. However, over the course of the year, I can't put down my idea of there is some degree of personal principle and behavior differences between us. Actually, if speaking in a 3rd person standpoint, the difference is minimal. I understand that everybody is different and unique, however, each other would have their own standards too. I don't think that I do not like him, cause I see the potential in him, and I aim for a good quality, loving marriage, I see all these in him. Therefore, for me still holding a ruler in the relationship does hinder my Devotion to my boyfriend. Cause when I say I love someone, I need to feeling a great amount of devotion to this person as to be considered as I love this someone. So I want to know, say I want to have a marriage with my boyfriend, which means is a long-lasting, loving relationship, what can I do to leave this mindset in mind? Since I have this such mindset, I always have doubts whether I love him or not. Please help.
taiko Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Q:Difference on personal principle and behavior in a couple, for the long run, is it something can be overcome? Just cut to the chase, Please help. What is it a principle or just a behavior? Some things can be overcome, principles as a general can not.
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