memories Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 I'm just trying to figure out what and why I did to be unfaithful to my H. Why did you have an affair? I think I've been missing a lot in my marriage. Communication, friendship, understanding, intimacy......oh jeez my list just goes on.
Jinxx Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Easy -- because I was no longer attracted to my husband. We grew apart and opportunity presented itself and I acted upon it. I am now legally separated from my husband. Had he been willing to meet me half way for my needs, I wouldn't have strayed. Infidelitiy is a very complicated subject. I might add I am a former BS. There is a lot I understand now that I didn't 20 some odd years ago.
Jinxx Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 What is a BS? Betrayed spouse. My ex-husband cheated on me and is now married to his OW. They seem to be very happy together. So goes to show you that sometimes it does work for those who decide to look for love outside of their marriage.
4whatItsWorth Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Kissed another male friend after my EX-boyfriend had neglected me for about three months and ended the evening with saying "Thanks. You've ruined my evening" because I asked him to spend some quality-time with me. There are always some sort of reasons. Think usual is feeling neglected by somebody. However, I'd never do it again and I'd never go beyond kissing.
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