Guest Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Hi everyone, I have been reading over the posts here the last couple of weeks and I have the nerve finally to ask a question. How do I make him understand that I no longer love him? I have been separated for sometime now and I am trying to move on with my life with my 3 kids but he is making it difficult to do so. No matter what I tell him, he thinks that I am being indecisive and not sure what I want. How the hell does he know how i feel, he didn't pay attention the whole time we were married, now that I have divorced him, he suddenly knows what I want and what I think? WOW. Anyway, he tries to get info from the kids when they go over and see him, I have told them that if he asks anything to tell him to come and talk to mom, I wish that he would just face reality and move on, heal himself, and live his life for the kids now and whatever he does to find happiness. I wish that I didn't feel awkward when he comes over to get the kids, I wish that I could make him understand that I do not want to try on us, cause there is no us. I have been honest and open with him since the separation, then I divorced him, why can't he see the light, why can't he see that when I tell him I don't love him and that I don't want to try at anything cause there is nothing there for me to try with. Help........
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