Ginger27 Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 Hello All, I am new to this community and have research this website to find people have great advice. Hence, why I joined and posting this thread. I am in need of advice. Now, I have had sex with 3 woman and had a relationship with a woman for 6 months before I met my husband. I am attracted to both sexes. My husband and I have been married for 3 years and together for almost 6 years. My husband is aware of my past and is fine with it. I have not been with a woman for 6 years now. And in these 6 years, I have never expressed by interest in being with a woman again. A couple months of ago, I express to him that I have had fantasies about having sex with a woman. He is being super supportive and respects my sexual needs. And, that is all they are, purely sexual. My husband has my heart and is the only man I want to be with. I am very proud of him and his reaction to this delicate situation. If I was to be with a woman again, he would have to be involved. This man is my husband and if I am to indulge in something sexual, he has to be an equal part of it. In fact, our sex life for the past couple of years has been depressed. Since we had that very open conversation, our sex lives have been elevated. Long story short, I need some advice from others who have went through this situation. I mean I have so many questions. How do you go about a threesome? What is a good foundation/rules to laydown so we both feel comfortable? Strangers or friends? Thanks you for listening!
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