gmoise Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 My ex broke up with me after 5 years of living together and promising to marry me, then all of a sudden claiming that he didn't like who he was with me and how I made him feel. I found out after the fact he ran into his first love from high school and that sparked the whole change of heart. My confusion comes from the fact that 99% of our problems came from the fact that he smoked pot a lot and was irresponsible with money which put a lot of strain on us financially and caused a lot of tension and fighting. I tried to get him to stop and he would always accuse me of trying to change him, but now here's the kicker. He did change, AFTER breaking up with me. He quit smoking, pays his bills on time and is trying to be "productive" as he put it. How come he's suddenly seen the light now?? I don't smoke cigarettes or use drugs, I was a good influence in his live. I helped him out financially, getting his **** together and buying a car with my help, just 1 month before the break-up. How come he didn't do right by me when that would have made all the difference in our happiness???? it's been 4 months, I know I should let it go, but it still hurts and I feel used and betrayed!!
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