chill chic Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 I just met this new guy through myspace, he's new to my town, and was looking to meet new people. So we've just messaged back n forth, and we both have pictures on our pages, and he is totally HOT, like outrageously hot, and I'm kinda intimidated by his good looks. When he messaged me back, he said it is nice meeting new people and especially attractive ones. So that made me happy lol But I guess I'm kinda afraid what he'll think when we meet, like a blind date kinda thing, where you don't know for sure ya know? And I looked at his page and he has other people such as girls as friends that are really attractive, so it's making me a lil nervous lol. I mean I can be confident, and I get alot of compliments, but I've never met a guy this stunning before. He seems really nice, and if anything I'd like to be his friend. He said he'd like to get lunch sometime, which makes me nervous lol, I don't know why I mean the last guy I was with that I've talked about so often on here, looks similar to him, so I shouldn't be so afraid, but I am for some reason. So..what are some tips to being confident around a stud? lol. I told him if he needed help getting to know the area that he could always ask me, and that I'd be happy to help, so I guess the best plan is to be as helpful as I can, especially since he's new here. But what else?
Green Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 Well Im a stud so I guess I could give you a few tips little lady. Now I think you know what to do you just afraid of being rejected by some on you find so atractive because if some one this attractive really likes you its going to make you feel atractive and if the oposite occurs you will posibly fall apart. well u'll be fine either way barbie girl
Pyro Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 Just be yourself. Nothing shows confidence more then being yourself around others. Don't sweat it.
Trialbyfire Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 A guy is just a guy. If this has only been static photos, might I suggest a flirty webcam session (no, not the nude ones, guys) before agreeing to meet him. This way you can see how you like his mannerisms and also, you can see the environment he lives in. Might help to give you some clues about him as a person and if you see something interesting in the background, give you something to chat about for your date.
DanielMadr Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 Residing on myspace even surrounded by hot chicks usually means he is seriously bored....have no real action. And internet dating is for lazy pussies. So give him some real action and he will be grateful. Men have no problem with shy girls but you shouldnt be shy when accepting dates. Send him a message now and then to let him know you are interested if you are too shy to give any other signals.
Fiona Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 A hot looking picture does not neccissarilly make a man hot. Talk to him on the phone (help him with something that's easier done verbally).
D-Lish Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 Pic's are often deceptive. 90% of the guys I have met from online dating HAVE NOT looked like their pics... Everyone puts their best image up. So I wouldn't worry about that... But I would advise you to be a little leery of someone who surrounds themself with lots of female attention on the myspace front... If you meet him, be yourself.... make him laugh.
DanielMadr Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 Pic's are often deceptive. 90% of the guys I have met from online dating HAVE NOT looked like their pics... Everyone puts their best image up. So I wouldn't worry about that... But I would advise you to be a little leery of someone who surrounds themself with lots of female attention on the myspace front... If you meet him, be yourself.... make him laugh. You look like Valkyr on your pic:laugh:
3hundred Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 It is only a mindset... If you know that you are attractive and if he finds you attractive, then there is nothing abnormal about it that you should feel attractive.. That should just boost your confidence by that much... if you know what you want and can show it confidently, he will get it.. and you will get him...
Green Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 I look really good in my pictures and even better in real life so maybe u'll get a guy like that then u can be really intimidated because he'll be even better then u thought
monkey00 Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Value his opinion and ask for his opinion/advice (or make up a pretend situation). I know there are girls who make up fake situations as a reason to contact a guy because they are interested. Usually im attracted to girls who make that extra effort and asks for my opinion...which separates her from girls that do not.
someone2 Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 This thread is actually the first time in my life where I see a girl pursuing a guy based solely on his looks. I thought girls were only interested in personality. Women!
monkey00 Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 This thread is actually the first time in my life where I see a girl pursuing a guy based solely on his looks. I thought girls were only interested in personality. Women! ah yes, but let us never forget looks is a prerequisite to initial attraction!
Green Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 yes girls like guys with tall expensive athletic personalities...
D-Lish Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 You look like Valkyr on your pic:laugh: As in a Viking Death Maiden? lol. Always had a thing for Norse Mythology...
Married2IceQueen Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 If this guy is really into his own looks then he's a sweet boy and you don't want him. What men really want is this. 1. Don't be fat. 2. Don't be a bitch. 3. Dress hot. 4. Be honest. Most men who are real men want a women who is fun, interesting, libidinous, honest, friendly, physically fit, bright, and positve.
DanielMadr Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 As in a Viking Death Maiden? lol. Always had a thing for Norse Mythology... Yeah exactly like that. Maybe you should by some body armour.....thumb-stalls will do
D-Lish Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 All I need is my shield and my sword and it's all good. It's a good life being Odin's bi#*h.
2ndIINone Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 myspace is evil... I think Tom created the top 8 to ruin' and cause drama for all relationships. Find a guy that doesn't sit at home 'searching and browsing' for the hottest pics of girls he can find just to impress his friends.
D-Lish Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 I thought Tom was my friend. Guess I was duped. Stupid Tom.
tragicglands Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 And internet dating is for lazy pussies. A lazy pussy sounds acceptable. A hot looking picture does not neccissarilly make a man hot. No, but bad spelling makes a woman wicked. You need a spanking.
Fiona Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 A lazy pussy sounds acceptable. No, but bad spelling makes a woman wicked. You need a spanking. I was looking at a hot picture when I wrote it.
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 All I need is my shield and my sword and it's all good. It's a good life being Odin's bi#*h. I bet he's pretty rough;) Be careful around Thor...he is Lord of Thunder:confused:
D-Lish Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 Well, I'll be hovering over the battleground waiting for you to perish a warrior's death so I can escort you to Valhalla! Don't screw up and take a coward's way out or you'll be banished to a life in one of the seven layers of hell. And let's face it, that would really suck!
Salicious Crumb Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 I just met this new guy through myspace, he's new to my town, and was looking to meet new people. So we've just messaged back n forth, and we both have pictures on our pages, and he is totally HOT, like outrageously hot, and I'm kinda intimidated by his good looks. When he messaged me back, he said it is nice meeting new people and especially attractive ones. That should make you feel good...but looks like he will probably continue to look for the "attractive ones". I'd be very leary, unless all you want is a one night stand or something.
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