joe and lana

[onedumbbroad]

ok, my best friend, lana, that has been like a sister to me is like me in so many ways that we sometimes go after the same men. i had this friend w/ benefits, lets name the ******* joe, joe and i had tried dating at one time but it just never worked out, we stayed friends and kept a sexual relationship for 2 years, till one night he came out with me and lana and ended up taking her home. i didnt think anything of it untill the next day when she asked me if it was ok to date him, i told her he had issues but it was fine with me. later on that night, after she had left and was on her way home that it was not ok with me and it would be weird. she misunderstood as she says now but told me she slept with him that day. she wasnt going to tell me because i would have given her a speech about her "past" but i didnt. i think im more hurt that she didnt tell me before and she wasnt at all untill i would assume after a few months of them dating. now they are over because she found out about his issues, clingy, the worst in bed and a all around ass. but sometimes i just think about it and get upset that she would do something like that and not intend on telling me. is that wrong?

[bridget_jones]

Sorry but you agreed to give this man bodily pleasure without a relationship, so anything goes. That's why I totally recommend not doing the FWB thing. Your friend puts her body out there for the taking, too. You both need to learn that just because you're willing to drop your panties for a man, doesn't mean he's going to respect you, because believe me, he doesn't respect either you OR Lana. If she didn't, he was getting sex out of her....and if she would have waited before dropping her panties for him, she would have found out sooner how much of a slime she was.

 

I highly recommend that when you are dating a man, DATE him a couple months....get to know him, develop an emotional BOND. Because the truth is, you can't f**k a guy into a relationship (I know Erik will totally disagree with this).