NearlyThere Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 To all OW, this is the type of woman that gives all of you a bad name. Cruel and selfish. This woman doesn't care about anyone but herself. I do hope that she is a troll because I would like to believe that humans are better than this. Tell me about it, I wonder why we are so hated, then I read this, throw up my hands in disbelief, shake my head and no longer wonder. Vengeful and spiteful are the words that sprint to mind. Meetme26, he has possibly changed his mind about being with you but has not got the balls to tell you, so why chase him, tell him to take a hike in the opposite direction to you. If he does not respect you or treat you well then he does not deserve you. Of course you also have to remember as you are in an A, he is never going to be able to contact you as an SG would so it is possible circumstances are hard for him at the mo, you know the saying, if you can't stand the heat get out the kitchen.
HellenBack Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 A little bitter and spiteful? You really should have called the wife before you screwed her husband. You could have let her know that you intended to have sex with him and destroy her world. Getting moral, vengeful and spiteful after he decides he no longer want to continue the A is pretty pathetic. It's obvious what your motives and intentions are..to hurt him. Believe people here when they tell you that the wife and kid are going to be hurt worse than anyone involved here. Sad thing, they didn't ask to be in this situation...you and MM put them in it. Grow up, get some integrity and move on.... Of course, this isn't the first time I have heard an OW doing this, or dropping hints, threats of telling the wife to a MM to continue the A. Not sure how common it is, but I have heard my share...it's all pathetic. You went in knowning he was married, and no matter what he told you about leaving, about his wife, his life... you made the decision to play the game. If it's not working for you, take your ball and go home.
Jinxx Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 Being the the OW (or OM) is frustrating period! What the hell do you have to gain by telling? Really... revenge??? The hope that he will leave his wife for you? I am an XOW. I could so easily tell his wife. But what would I have to gain??? Nothing, nope, nothing. Why would I want to wreck the relationship he built for so many years. I don't. Let it be fake to his family, friends and her. I don't really give a rat's ass. Something is definitely lacking in his relationship with his wife, that is for sure but it is none of my business. Plus our kids are friends. It suits no purpose in telling, reallly it doesn't. Women (or men) choose to be in this situation as the the MM or MW. You have nothing to gain by telling or sharing your dirty little secret. Not worth it. Move on and put this behind you. Easier said than done, trust me.... I know.
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