Ssheena Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 I say...keep the dog, ditch the dude. Give him a time limit.. 10 days to get his stuff out or he will find it in the garage or outside the place in boxes. Change the locks. He has made his choice, now he's going to have to deal with it and that means no you, no house etc. I can see baby steps getting made by you as well and applaud you for them! Take care of yourself!
Author jaycie724 Posted March 28, 2007 Author Posted March 28, 2007 So I got what I asked for. He's moving out in a week and half. I know in my head its the right thing for me but I'm SO sad. I can't stop crying. The worst thing is, I'm stuck in the apartment we have until the end of may and its HUGE and half the furniture is gonna be gone and the closet will be half empty and his toothbrush wont be in the holder anymore. It's so very hard. btw - im down 16lbs total now. but i did eat a little today so you all will be proud of me.
polywog Posted March 28, 2007 Posted March 28, 2007 Oh jaycie, dear, I feel for you! I'm moving out of the home I thought I'd be in forever from the man I thought was forever so I certainly relate, and my heart is breaking along with yours. I'm also having trouble eating, and totally relate to that, too. I know all about that toothbrush thing, etc.!! You'll be grieving for a while, as will I, so you have company. Just hang in there and keep posting and take heart in the fact that LS can be a source of strength, and that your posts help others going through the same trauma. We'll all get stronger together... We're better off without them and the day will come when someone worthy comes along, of that we can be sure tho it doesn't seem like it now because of the pain of losing. This will pass and we will heal! polywog
Author jaycie724 Posted March 28, 2007 Author Posted March 28, 2007 Oh jaycie, dear, I feel for you! I'm moving out of the home I thought I'd be in forever from the man I thought was forever so I certainly relate, and my heart is breaking along with yours. I'm also having trouble eating, and totally relate to that, too. I know all about that toothbrush thing, etc.!! You'll be grieving for a while, as will I, so you have company. Just hang in there and keep posting and take heart in the fact that LS can be a source of strength, and that your posts help others going through the same trauma. We'll all get stronger together... We're better off without them and the day will come when someone worthy comes along, of that we can be sure tho it doesn't seem like it now because of the pain of losing. This will pass and we will heal! polywog Thanks, polywog. My mom told me something yesterday that stuck with me. She said "positive thinking yields positive results" and I think she's right and I know that was her way of trying to motivate me to try to get out of this pit I'm in. I just wish I could make myself be more positive and act more positive and make more positive steps for myself. I have a great plan, I just can't seem to pry myself away from the kleenex long enough to take action. Im constantly anxious, my chest always feels tight, my heart is always racing, my stomach is always tied in knots. I know he doesn't deserve me, but my heart isn't on board with my brain right now.
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