Subtle pass or just an accident?

[Guest]

I am at work and MM walks into my office, asking me for something. We walk over to the desk to look for it together. I have my right hand leaning against the desk and he is standing to the right of me. I have some objects to my left. He goes to reach for the objects to my left and with his left hand he very FIRMLY (not lightly, firmly) runs the back of his left hand across the back of my right hand which is resting, palm down, on the desk. He never says sorry or apologizes.

 

What do you think, was this an accident or done on purpose?

[eeyore30]

I think that it is a subtle pass. See men do things like that to see how you react and if you don't react in a positive way he will know you are not interested. However if you don't react positively then he knows you are not interested and he moves on. ARe you interested in this man?

[stillhere]

As eeyore said it, i think it was done purposely. He was testing the waters to see where you stood.

 

If you are not involved with this man, don't become involved with this man. If you acted positively to this advance, ignore the other advances he will throw your way.

 

There is way too much pain and heartache involved with A's and i wish i had thought that out before i dove head first into one.

[outofdarkness]

I am at work and MM walks into my office, asking me for something. We walk over to the desk to look for it together. I have my right hand leaning against the desk and he is standing to the right of me. I have some objects to my left. He goes to reach for the objects to my left and with his left hand he very FIRMLY (not lightly, firmly) runs the back of his left hand across the back of my right hand which is resting, palm down, on the desk. He never says sorry or apologizes.

 

What do you think, was this an accident or done on purpose?

This is a coworker??? Sounds like S-----Harassment to me...

[Erik]

I could be an accident. What's there to be sorry or apologise about?