gillybean Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Ok here is a little bit of history and if anyone could help me with this, I will appreciated it. My boyfriend of 1 year and 9 months just hooked up with 3 girls at once and we are currently in a long distance relationship. The way that I found out was that he told me. So I do give him credit for this. I really want to work on our relationship but he is having a hard time dealing with his guilt. I really am ready to move on but he really isn't. He says that he wants to be with me but he is having a hard time seeing us be ok in the future. Like I said I really want this to work. But what do I do to get him to be ok with everything.
Guest Posted March 31, 2007 Posted March 31, 2007 i would cut your losses and move on. he told you and said that he doesn't think things will be ok with you two in the future. that is a bad combination. he sounds reluctant. he is not mature enough yet, and sadly enough, he will need to lose a good woman before he matures enough to know what it takes to keep one happy.
jadedhalo Posted April 6, 2007 Posted April 6, 2007 yes move on... it will not work! My philosophy is this. Once a cheater always a cheater. If he did it once, he will do it again. I don't care if he only lives across the street. He may feel guilty right now, but once that subsides, he will back in the saddle! Move on sister! I have had a long distance relationship before and it worked out quite nicely. We didn't cheat, just out grew each other. It would appear that he is not ready for such a committment. If his big head were in the right place (your heart) he would be down with all of this. Move on! There are plenty of guys out there who don't cheat.
Deedee Posted April 8, 2007 Posted April 8, 2007 DUMP HIM!!! he does not deserve you. plus, if he had 3 partners, he most likely is now carrying hpv subtypes. that can ruin your life.
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