AnneB49 Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I have been reading through this site (true enugh I am a new member, but I have been reading for a few weeks before joining) and I notice there is an overall community disgust for recreational sex...Is this just me...I mean did none of you other girls spread yourself around when you were younger? crazy parties in college, weekend trips to the tropics, anything like that? Is there anything bad about that? I mean as long as you are safe and respectful...what is the problem? It is your body, having an orgasm is a great experience...why not have more of them? We accept all other types of recreation, why not sex?
1dw Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I agree. I have a feeling that I am in the minority here, but I have no problems with recreational sex.
Erik Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Me neither. But then I'm from Europe, and a man to boot, so it doesn't really count.
EC Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I tried it...but then I didnt like it. Im a relationship girl
serial muse Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 that's odd that you have that impression...are you reading in the sex, etc. thread much? lots of people here (women and men) like sex for sex, and yeah, some have had wild pasts. there is a general community angst over infidelity, but that's different i think. >shrug<
1DeadB Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 As Andy Rooney says, Why buy the pig when you can get a little sausage for free.
DanielMadr Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Probably b/c girls value goes down with it. Why? It could signify you are not very picky. You could continue with it in the future....and DNA paternity testing is lame. Nobody likes the idea that their SO was touched, slobbered etc. by other people....you seriously cant compare it to recreation. Because it could mean you are vain person....all fun and no responsibility. Its similar with alcohol/narcotic/drug abuse....'Has she some problems, issues?' B/c it is not standard/moral behaviour, it gives you second thoughts, which can complicate/damage your personality (it starts with questions like you have now) ------------ Sure standards are changing but only thing that changed is....we have Anticonception now. Other reasons for modest sexual behaviour remain. ------------ I gave you reasons why its not OK. But you should know that Jesus was dating (I believe so) Mary Magdalene and she was former prostitute.
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