DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Well, I exaggerated a little bit He did try to feel my boobs, but the aforementioned layers circumvented him. Um, he was quite a good kisser, very gentle and slow. But yeah, the missing thing was weird. I spoke to him the other day and told him I thought we weren't compatible. Exactly how I say....'women are like terrorists, they regard kindness as weakness.And you cant negotiate with them.' Um, that's a good question. I think he probably would grope anyone available. I don't think he thought I was ready for full blown sex. I kissed him back when he kissed me (maybe I shouldn't have) and I guess he kept going. Or at least tried to. Yeah yeah another horny pig obssesed with sex:rolleyes: . I do think he should hold his horses but maybe you are too irresistible or he can read minds...I bet you are horny as hell:laugh:
Author Ripples Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 Exactly how I say....'women are like terrorists, they regard kindness as weakness.And you cant negotiate with them.' So I prefer men who aren't needy. Yeah yeah another horny pig obssesed with sex:rolleyes: . Where did I say that? You could just as easily have taken it as self-denigration on my part. I do think he should hold his horses but maybe you are too irresistible or he can read minds...I bet you are horny as hell:laugh: Give me strength...
justagirlforever Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 lol - we'll at least you gave it your best shot! Nothing about the date sounded right (right for you), and by the sounds of it (being flown to dinner or not) I wouldn't have been very impressed either by his lack of real interest. It has to be a mutual thing. So onwards and upwards indeed (anyone else on the horizon perhaps?)
TYASAFAHICSI Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 OK all you fem-nazis....here is my take (a male perspective)---- The guy is probably not that comfy with his own self confidence. Probably took some balls to ask the Rip out in the first place. He met the babe in a flight school when she presumably was taken--so, there obviously is a bit of apprehension in asking her out. Now if one is not terribly self confident, it is a perfect date in a man's eyes. He needs to concentrate flying so if conversation is bad--there is the excuse. Of course dinner conversation can be fueled by a common interest--flying. And yes of course he is trying to impress. We all are! We suck in our stomachs, we inflate our bank accounts, we go over the limit on our charge accounts and so forth. He is definately interested in you. I think he was just scared about what to talk about and got rambling on what he knows best and what is common. It is a shame you kicked him to the curb so soon. I might have suggested another date--maybe one where you could talk about anal sex in your ballgown with the 6" stilleto heels. Something that does not necessitate fly talk. Then you can get to know a bit more about one another---hell even ranting about your work not letting you get to Bond Street would be a good conversation. You said he was a good kisser---and I am thinking the fact that you were receptive sort of gave him the go ahead for the boob grab. But a subtle repositioning of his arm will tell him that it is not appropriate without hurting his feelings or embarassing anyone. As you said, it was only a date. It was not a bad date, nor was it a good one. Worthy of a second in my opinion. And yes, the missing you was a bit wierd! But we all have our quirks. I for one tend to fall in "love" a lot faster than I probably should!
IfWishesWereHorses Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Ripples, Ripples, Ripples... "I don't think we're compatible" will only make him want you more. Another thing not to say is "I don't want a boyfriend.. not interested in a serious relationship". Things to say: I think I'm in love with you... I think we would make beautiful children together...I'ld like to have enough for a football team. I can't stop thinking about you, you are the only man for me. Please take me in and support me for the rest of my days... See, men are like children you have to use REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY!!!
TYASAFAHICSI Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Yes, that movie with Matthey McCaunaghy and Kate Hudson--How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. She was photoshopping pictures to see how their kids would look like!
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 So I prefer men who aren't needy. 'I miss you' is needy? I dont say he isnt needy or that you should date him....you simply dont like him that much. But that 'miss you' thing is it really that much of a turn off? I thought I should use these words myself more b/c I was told my emotional output is similar to rock. Well what the hell I know.
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Ripples, Ripples, Ripples... "I don't think we're compatible" will only make him want you more. Another thing not to say is "I don't want a boyfriend.. not interested in a serious relationship". Things to say: I think I'm in love with you... I think we would make beautiful children together...I'ld like to have enough for a football team. I can't stop thinking about you, you are the only man for me. Please take me in and support me for the rest of my days... See, men are like children you have to use REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY!!! It works but only on guys with interest level 60 max. Once he is really interested, hearing this words will make him bed you.
Art_Critic Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 I thought I should use these words myself more b/c I was told my emotional output is similar to rock. Tell any girl you miss them after only a first dinner date and they will run as fast as they can away from you.. YES.. I miss you after a first date is needy... Very needy in fact.. If it isn't needy then what would define needy after a first date ?..I love you is something this guy would say after a second date.. She is better off without him..and as it seems she doesn't want him.. is that so hard to believe ?
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Tell any girl you miss them after only a first dinner date and they will run as fast as they can away from you.. YES.. I miss you after a first date is needy... Very needy in fact.. If it isn't needy then what would define needy after a first date ?..I love you is something this guy would say after a second date.. She is better off without him..and as it seems she doesn't want him.. is that so hard to believe ? I would never tell neither of these things and I know girls are alergic to it but it just never stops to amaze me I believe it. And I dont advice her otherwise. Its just that I have that naive concept of love on first sight. They meet. They chat. They kiss. And then they miss each other.
Author Ripples Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 OK all you fem-nazis....here is my take (a male perspective)---- The guy is probably not that comfy with his own self confidence. Probably took some balls to ask the Rip out in the first place. He met the babe in a flight school when she presumably was taken--so, there obviously is a bit of apprehension in asking her out.Ahhem, actually, I've had my PPL for about 10 years.... Now if one is not terribly self confident, it is a perfect date in a man's eyes. He needs to concentrate flying so if conversation is bad--there is the excuse. Of course dinner conversation can be fueled by a common interest--flying. And yes of course he is trying to impress. We all are! We suck in our stomachs, we inflate our bank accounts, we go over the limit on our charge accounts and so forth. He is definately interested in you. I think he was just scared about what to talk about and got rambling on what he knows best and what is common. It is a shame you kicked him to the curb so soon. I might have suggested another date--maybe one where you could talk about anal sex in your ballgown with the 6" stilleto heels. Something that does not necessitate fly talk. Then you can get to know a bit more about one another---hell even ranting about your work not letting you get to Bond Street would be a good conversation.Hmmmmm, yes, ok, confidence thingy could be true.... I knew I should have introduced anal sex into the conversation. Goddamn my sensibilities. I can't help feeling that it wasn't nerves, or at least, not just nerves. He's 42, good looking (well, I think so), got a good job etc. etc. etc. not really the material to be fumbling over what to say, I didn't think... I don't know. I'm a bloody cripple for goodness sake - hardly intimidating. You said he was a good kisser---and I am thinking the fact that you were receptive sort of gave him the go ahead for the boob grab. But a subtle repositioning of his arm will tell him that it is not appropriate without hurting his feelings or embarassing anyone. Yea, I take responsibility for the boob grab, no biggie though - too many clothes for him to get very far. I guess he seemed pretty anxious to go for it though. Oh damn, now I'm thinking about sex. As you said, it was only a date. It was not a bad date, nor was it a good one. Worthy of a second in my opinion. And yes, the missing you was a bit wierd! But we all have our quirks. I for one tend to fall in "love" a lot faster than I probably should! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Oh bloody hell, now I'm thinking I may have to text him. Ripples, Ripples, Ripples... "I don't think we're compatible" will only make him want you more. Another thing not to say is "I don't want a boyfriend.. not interested in a serious relationship". Things to say: I think I'm in love with you... I think we would make beautiful children together...I'ld like to have enough for a football team. I can't stop thinking about you, you are the only man for me. Please take me in and support me for the rest of my days... See, men are like children you have to use REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY!!! Sheeeeeeeeeeet! Where were you when I needed you???????? And AC - thank you, I was afraid I was being too picky and I just can't afford to be nowadays.
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 He is 42? Its a bit wide age gap then init? You could be his daughter.
Author Ripples Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 Err, that would have made him 6 years old when I was born.
DanielMadr Posted March 29, 2007 Posted March 29, 2007 Err, that would have made him 6 years old when I was born. Im trying to iron out that Lemur thing.You are not helping
Author Ripples Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 Are you flirting with me, Daniel?????? Bloody men, they're like buses, nothing for ages then two at once. Actually, reading that back, that sounded pretty bad. Oops.
DanielMadr Posted March 30, 2007 Posted March 30, 2007 Are you flirting with me, Daniel?????? Bloody men, they're like buses, nothing for ages then two at once. Actually, reading that back, that sounded pretty bad. Oops. Flirting is for girls. Besides I could be your grand father.
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