alphamale Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Don't forget the crotchless knickers. and the 6" stilleto boots
justagirlforever Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 @ crotchless knickers! Sounds like you have a perfect fist date set up there!
Art_Critic Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Sounds like you have a perfect fist date set up there! .. lets not go there on a FIRST date
Author Ripples Posted March 23, 2007 Author Posted March 23, 2007 Right, thanks guys, fingers crossed for tomorrow night. I'll report back on the lack of fisting
justagirlforever Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 .. lets not go there on a FIRST date woops was that a Freudian slip typo? It just gets better! (erm - ok, just to avoid confusion - the story - not the fist )
Author Ripples Posted March 26, 2007 Author Posted March 26, 2007 Weeellll, here's the debrief: A bit of background to start: I met this guy about eight months ago at an Old Sarum airfield where I fly microlights. We've stayed in vague contact since then. So, he phones me Friday night and tells me to wear something warm. That slinky, flimsy, sexy number goes back in the wardrobe and the chunky, shapeless pullover comes out. With woolly hat. He picks me up and drives me to Kidlington, which is an airfield not far away. He flies me to Dunkeswell and we get a taxi from the airfield there to the Castle hotel nearby where we have dinner. He then flies me back to Kidlington and then drives me home. Ok, so great, really great. However, his attitude seemed like he was trying to impress a little too hard, he wasn't relaxed about it at all and seemed to only want to talk about his flying, how many hours he's got etc. etc. etc. Now that's all well and good, but I've been in the scene for so long that I'm just not impressed by the skygods anymore. I feel such an ungrateful bitch.
justagirlforever Posted March 26, 2007 Posted March 26, 2007 ok, well I find it a little tricky to be objective here. No one has ever flown me anywhere for dinner - I'd be completely & utterly bowled over! That aside: If it's something you're used to, he should have known that wouldn't be special for you. But then again, he might have thought it's something you're interested in (as flying is how you met) and therefore something you will surely enjoy? And who knows, he might have been nervous and therefore speaking about things he feels most comfortable with - i.e. himself! (lol) So is it a no-no for a second date then because he's a bit too much of a me-me-me kinda guy?
mental_traveller Posted March 26, 2007 Posted March 26, 2007 Soooo, I've been asked out for dinner tomorrow night. I'm very flattered and I'm looking forward to it. Although it's a little soon for me to be thinking about anything heavy, I don't want to put him off too quickly, so I was wondering what to say if and when the question is asked; "So, what happened with you and your latest ex?" You should say "See you!" and make a prompt exit Seriously, someone shouldn't really ask that on a first date, it's a bit nosey not to mention a serious mood-killer. If he asks, and you are really interested in him, then just give some wishy-washy explanation like "We just drifted apart", "He was a nice guy but it wasn't meant to be", "He got mad when he walked in on one of my lesbian orgy sessions" etc
Author Ripples Posted March 27, 2007 Author Posted March 27, 2007 ok, well I find it a little tricky to be objective here. No one has ever flown me anywhere for dinner - I'd be completely & utterly bowled over! That aside: If it's something you're used to, he should have known that wouldn't be special for you. But then again, he might have thought it's something you're interested in (as flying is how you met) and therefore something you will surely enjoy? And who knows, he might have been nervous and therefore speaking about things he feels most comfortable with - i.e. himself! (lol) So is it a no-no for a second date then because he's a bit too much of a me-me-me kinda guy? Oh, no, don't get me wrong. I'm not used to be flown somewhere for dinner, but I do have over 500 hours flying time. The flying was great. However, the constant banging on about how much flying he's done, how he got his licence, how many hours he's got with seemingly no interest in anything about me was a bit off-putting. He left a message last night - "Call me! Missing you!" Missing me??? I think I better call him back tonight and be honest.
burning 4 revenge Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 Ok, so great, really great. However, his attitude seemed like he was trying to impress a little too hard, he wasn't relaxed about it at all If you want to take a chance on me I'll take you to Denny's in my Honda. No pretensions here...
alphamale Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 If you want to take a chance on me I'll take you to Denny's in my Honda.... you mean ON your Honda....your honda scooter
Author Ripples Posted March 27, 2007 Author Posted March 27, 2007 If you want to take a chance on me I'll take you to Denny's in my Honda. No pretensions here... I think you're missing the point. I have no problem with being flown anywhere, of course not! I have a problem with being talked at on a date and not with. He could have driven me there in a 1.1 Corsa; he could have made me drive myself, and I'd have had a better time if only he'd had a wider conversation.
burning 4 revenge Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 I'll talk to you. What do you want to talk about?
Author Ripples Posted March 27, 2007 Author Posted March 27, 2007 Oh, errrrr......... I guess that proves a point... mea culpa
Art_Critic Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 "Call me! Missing you!" I guess you were great conversation..
DanielMadr Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 If he asks, tell him that your ex was accidentaly shot dead by ping pong ball when doing some research for U.N. in Thailand.
Author Ripples Posted March 27, 2007 Author Posted March 27, 2007 I guess I missed out the point of this thread in the debrief. The question 'what happened with your ex?' never came up.
DanielMadr Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 I guess I missed out the point of this thread in the debrief. The question 'what happened with your ex?' never came up. He was one unlucky guy. He thought he has a girl with the same enthusiasm for flying wanting to share her flying experiences and all you wanted to share were body fluids:D
Author Ripples Posted March 27, 2007 Author Posted March 27, 2007 He didn't give me a chance to share anything! Am I speaking Mongolian???? Well, having said that he did offer to share something, but I declined.....
DanielMadr Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 He didn't give me a chance to share anything! Am I speaking Mongolian???? Well, having said that he did offer to share something, but I declined..... I thought youre from Ulanbatar. My mistake. Did he offer you a chewing gum to share?
Author Ripples Posted March 27, 2007 Author Posted March 27, 2007 I know, I look so much like Genghis Khan, easy mistake to make. No chewing gum, just a hand thrust under my coat/jumper/shirt/t-shirt/bra (it took a while) whilst sticking his tongue half way down my throat. I extracted myself after deciding he wasn't really interested in me, only my ability to give him sex/blow job/hand job/boob job.
DanielMadr Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 I know, I look so much like Genghis Khan, easy mistake to make. No chewing gum, just a hand thrust under my coat/jumper/shirt/t-shirt/bra (it took a while) whilst sticking his tongue half way down my throat. I extracted myself after deciding he wasn't really interested in me, only my ability to give him sex/blow job/hand job/boob job. I thought your avatar is picture of Lemur Cata waiting to be fed:confused: No its a really nice picture of very attractive Lem....girl. Its cold in the aeroplane init? So much things. He was interested in you or he would be groping someone else, dont you think? And I think if you would be interested in him you would let go. What made him think you are ready for copulation btw?
sb129 Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 I know, I look so much like Genghis Khan, easy mistake to make. No chewing gum, just a hand thrust under my coat/jumper/shirt/t-shirt/bra (it took a while) whilst sticking his tongue half way down my throat. I extracted myself after deciding he wasn't really interested in me, only my ability to give him sex/blow job/hand job/boob job. Wow. Thats forward! I am assuming he didn't drink much cos of the flying, so not even alcohol as an excuse for fumblings? Ripples, if your gut instinct is saying no, don't see him again! The missing you thing is a little wierd too. was he a good kisser?
DanielMadr Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 On flight from Sydney to London captain forgot to switch off intercom. Everyone on the board hear him say to his co-pilot: 'Now I'd fancy a nice cup of coffee and that new hostess, you know that blond one with those fine tits and round azz.' Hostess hears it too of course and she runs to the cockpit to tell the pilot to switch off the intercom. When she is almost at the cockpit some passanger from bussiness class stops her and says:'You forgot the coffee, miss.'
Author Ripples Posted March 29, 2007 Author Posted March 29, 2007 Wow. Thats forward! I am assuming he didn't drink much cos of the flying, so not even alcohol as an excuse for fumblings? Ripples, if your gut instinct is saying no, don't see him again! The missing you thing is a little wierd too. was he a good kisser? Well, I exaggerated a little bit He did try to feel my boobs, but the aforementioned layers circumvented him. Um, he was quite a good kisser, very gentle and slow. But yeah, the missing thing was weird. I spoke to him the other day and told him I thought we weren't compatible. Its cold in the aeroplane init? So much things. Yeah, it gets cold, there's a heater, but they're not very efficient. Airfields are pretty cold too. I He was interested in you or he would be groping someone else, dont you think? And I think if you would be interested in him you would let go. What made him think you are ready for copulation btw? Um, that's a good question. I think he probably would grope anyone available. I don't think he thought I was ready for full blown sex. I kissed him back when he kissed me (maybe I shouldn't have) and I guess he kept going. Or at least tried to. Anyway! Onwards and upwards! (I hope)
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