tangerine trees Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 How can you tell if a bad boy wants to be tamed or if he doesn't care at all? And how would a girl approach catching and keeping a bad boy that does want to be tamed somewhere deep down?
RichC Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Why would you want a bad boy? That is not the stuff relationships are made of. You think a bad boy is going to be stable enough for a meaningful relationship? I would say steer clear because you are going after trouble.
3hundred Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I dont think that a bad boy will have the little child in him who is craving to get out of his shell and tame the bad boy... people change slightly over the years, or they change completely if something drastic happens.. if the bad boy doesnt want to be tamed, then you wont be able to tame him either.. it is a process and he will decide when he wants to be tamed....
Island Girl Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Bad boys never WANT to be tamed - deep down or otherwise. And if you don't know - you definitely should not be tangling with one. From your other posts you seem to be fairly sensitive and you will get hurt by one of these guys.
EllCee Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 How can you tell if a bad boy wants to be tamed or if he doesn't care at all? And how would a girl approach catching and keeping a bad boy that does want to be tamed somewhere deep down? Seriously, what planet are some of you people from? "Wants to be tamed"? Honey, they aren't zoo animals.
Clavage666 Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I see some real denial of masochistic tendencies here...
Plokette Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Are you using a chair and a whip for these tamings?
princessa Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I don't think you can "tame" one if you try to purposely do it. You should keep your distance to 1. avoid the trouble 2. let things happen naturally because that's the only way he'll ever be "tamed". It has to be something real for him, something within him that will push him to change. I don't think you can really artificially influence that because different 'bad boys' have different things that drive them in being bad, so the triggers that will make them change will be different for each one of them. Signs to look for is if he confides personal information in you, talks about his family, something really personal. If you notice him make a sacrifice for you. If you notice that he will actually pay attention to a piece of advice you give him.. Basically when you notice less "bad" behaviour all of a sudden then that's when you'll know he's being tamed (duh, lol). Oh yeah, not to be confused with whatever fake stuff he might say to get in your pants.
Pyro Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 How can you tell if a bad boy wants to be tamed or if he doesn't care at all? And how would a girl approach catching and keeping a bad boy that does want to be tamed somewhere deep down? He will become "tamed" when he decides to. If he is having good luck, he won't stop. To get him to stop, he would have to meet one heck of a lady or not have his "game" be working anymore.
TheSwordfish Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Offtopic: what do you think about the beatles? Lucy In The Sy With Diamonds!!! If a "bad boy" likes someone, is in love, insteda of after some.... then he will change his ways. That is unless he is actualy bad....
DanielMadr Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 What sort of bad are we talking about? Clipping his nails in bedroom? If we are talking about criminal. Well, they are lazy and dumb. And you should see their faces when they are busted....'Oh No mum save me'. That tough shyt they act is only a smoke screen, b/c they are so f@cked up inside. Every police shrink will tell you, they are little children. The same story goes for other non criminal 'bad' boys. Only difference....they are less bald. If you think you can handle 90kilogram spoiled child with serious anger, trust issues, suit yourself. I wouldnt go there. Dont punish yourself.
Woggle Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 No woman can tame a bad boy. He will be tamed when he is ready to be tamed and he will decide that all on his own.
stillafool Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 The bad boy will want to settle down when he meets the woman who blows his socks off. She won't view him as a bad boy because he won't display that behavior with her. She doesn't have to be beautiful either....something in him will click. I wouldn't waste my time trying to figure out how to get someone who is a "bad boy" in my mine. It would seem that bad boys deliver bad behavior. I'm sure you deserve better than that.
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