Young&Sexy21 Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I wanted to break up with my girlfriend a month and a half into our relationship. She wasn't interested in sex and I wasn't gonna have that. But I felt sorry for her. For some reason I couldn't see it the full way through. I called for a break (lasted less than a week) because she sounded so upset when I told her maybe we should just be friends. She still wanted to see me and be around me and part of me did too, and so we hung out and one day I couldn't resist the urge to kiss her and so it was on again (I didn't want to toy with her by kissing her and then keeping her by the wasteside). Things changed but she went on to dump me 2 and a half months later. Two questions: 1. In your opinion do you think she held a grudge against me and planned for revenge???? 2. In your opinion/experience can you explain my feeling sorry for her and not being able to make the executive decision to pull the plug for good? HAs this ever happened to you?
justagirlforever Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I wanted to break up with my girlfriend a month and a half into our relationship. She wasn't interested in sex and I wasn't gonna have that. So you dumped her after 6 weeks because she wasn't ready to have sex with you yet? That says more about you than her. And what it says about you isn't good. Things changed but she went on to dump me 2 and a half months later. Good for her. She probably saw the light of day and moved on for the better. 1. In your opinion do you think she held a grudge against me and planned for revenge???? no - being a woman that's highly unlikely 2. In your opinion/experience can you explain my feeling sorry for her and not being able to make the executive decision to pull the plug for good? HAs this ever happened to you? no
Author Young&Sexy21 Posted March 23, 2007 Author Posted March 23, 2007 So you dumped her after 6 weeks because she wasn't ready to have sex with you yet? That says more about you than her. And what it says about you isn't good. Let me clarify before this gets outta hand---Not intercourse, but I wanted to move past kissing and holding hands---in my last relationship I hung around for 3 years with a girl who told me no and I was fine waiting---right up until the day she cheated on me. That was not a place I wanted to go back to. Fooling around after 6 weeks---not so much to ask for. On top of that, 3 weeks into our relationship, she started talking to me about moving in together---I'm no tool---I'm not gonna even think about moving in together, one of the biggest steps in a relationship, without taking care of the little things that go with being in a relationship. I WAS NOT GOING TO GET TOOLED AGAIN
bridget_jones Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 She is the only one who is able to say why she broke up with you. There could be any number of reasons why she did this. Apparently you still had feelings for her yourself, because you admit you 'couldn't pull the plug for good.' Feelings are not so black and white, you can't just shut them off so easily. I know you want to keep going over and over the reasons in your head but the fact is, even though it sucks, she did break up with you. All you can do is focus on moving on. The best way to do this is have no contact. You are young, you will get over this.
Author Young&Sexy21 Posted March 24, 2007 Author Posted March 24, 2007 My ex dumped me because she got tired of me picking at her and tearing ino her for all of the things that made her not what I wanted. In truth..I should have let her be a long time before, if that was all I was gonna do. Good for her. Good for her for empowering herself and drawing the line. Very respectable. As for me; I'd do it again. And, I'm going to. I spent my whole life hearing from women why I'm not good enough, and ever since I woke up and realized that NO man NOR woman is perfect, I've been giving it right back to em'. There's no such thing as compromise. Only naiveity. Belive it. I shall have any girl I want.
Guest Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 I wanted to break up with my girlfriend a month and a half into our relationship. She wasn't interested in sex and I wasn't gonna have that. But I felt sorry for her. For some reason I couldn't see it the full way through. I called for a break (lasted less than a week) because she sounded so upset when I told her maybe we should just be friends. She still wanted to see me and be around me and part of me did too, and so we hung out and one day I couldn't resist the urge to kiss her and so it was on again (I didn't want to toy with her by kissing her and then keeping her by the wasteside). Things changed but she went on to dump me 2 and a half months later. Two questions: 1. In your opinion do you think she held a grudge against me and planned for revenge???? 2. In your opinion/experience can you explain my feeling sorry for her and not being able to make the executive decision to pull the plug for good? HAs this ever happened to you? you can tell yourself over and over again that you dont wanna be with her..but you love her soo much and if you didnt want anything to do with her then you would not feel bad for dumping her.. when you deside to make your mine up to break it off you need to do it and stick to it b cuz you are just hurting her even more messing with her heart and yours.soo you need to do what your heart is telling you to do.. i had a boyfriend and we broke up a month ago and he will text me all the time telling me is misses me then he will go and F**K a differnet gurl and he is hurting me soo bad buy doing that soo if you want it to be over MAKE IT OVER and stick with it soo you both and move on..
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