pelagicsands Posted March 31, 2007 Posted March 31, 2007 I was way too tired from the lesbian dildo gang bang before that That's not revenge. That's inspiration.
Citizen Erased Posted March 31, 2007 Posted March 31, 2007 That's not revenge. That's inspiration. I think I have the tape lying around here somewhere... eh thats like a wednesday night for me
shellys-trying Posted March 31, 2007 Posted March 31, 2007 I chose to get revenge on the skank & H in style. Good luck to all, or whatever!
JustBreathe Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 I've been trying to recover from my H's infidelities for 5 yrs. now. So broken inside. Right now our sex life is in the toilet. I find him about as attractive as navel lint. My sister just said this weekend that what I needed to do is have an affair or two myself. She's divorced and says there are plenty of good looking men out there and that I'm still attractive and fit and there's no reason why I shouldn't do it. So... your post has me thinking....really... if you can't beat them, perhaps the best thing is to go ahead and join them. I am going to read the rest of these posts. Maybe it'll keep me from cheating... and maybe not. Darn. Just went through the posts. No one's talking me out of it yet. Why should the betrayed party not have any fun? I feel like I"ve been sitting at the bus stop while everyone else has been riding the booty train.
lrae Posted April 2, 2007 Posted April 2, 2007 I would never cheat in revenge. That would make me no better than a cheater. Actually, the best revenge is going to the gym. My wife, who has cheated on me in the past, now is afraid that I will find someone better than her. The fact that I am working out every day and looking better than I did when I was 20 is making her feel real insecure. they will be eaten up with jealousy even though you are not cheating on them or giving them any reason to be jealous. Amen Salicious Crumb!! Caught husband having an A while pregnant. Felt really horribly trapped for >10 months. Fortunately, I have always been athletic and pregnancy really agrees with me. My baby girl is now 4 mos and I feel hotter than ever! Not that I started training again for revenge - even though I must admit to it being somewhat satisfying for that as well. But I really think that my confidence is the big difference. Having worked through the majority of the cr@p dealt me, at this point I really have nothing to lose or hide.
mental_traveller Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 After many years of marriage I found out that my wife had cheated on me, not once, but at least twice. I was stunned. then I was hurt, and then very angry. I decided i was going to get my revenge then dump her. So I found someone to cheat with and convinced myself I was going to call her on the phone while me and this other gal were making it and throw it in her face. I didn't do that. But over the next 18 months I cheated with 9 different women before my hurt and anger subsided. I never told her, but at the time I convinced myself I didn't owe her my faithfulness since she tossed aside hers. It's been 8 years since I did that. So, has anyone else done anything like this? Never done that. But can't blame you really. All I'd ask is why not ditch her too and go the full monty?
mental_traveller Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 I still think the ultimate revenge is just letting them be themselves. C'mon. The ultimate revenge is to get her best friend and sister to have a threesome with you in an exotic resort location, film your escapades, then wave "Hi darling" to the camera and post it to everyone she knows. Not only will you make her puke up her guts and feel total jealousy and humiliation, all your male acquaintances will think you are a total stud, and some of her "friends" will now want to jump into bed with you. 50 years from now, your friends' grandkids will be chuckling at how cool you were. You may even become a legend on the internet for your devastating revenge. Finally, any time you feel a bit depressed you can just remember this episode and it will bring a smile to your face.
Salicious Crumb Posted April 3, 2007 Posted April 3, 2007 First off, this thread is not about revenge against the OW, it's about revenge against the WS - remember him/her? That's the person who swore undying love and then dropped you like a hot potato when their spouse found out. Secondly, it's somehow supposed to make a difference that the OW hurts? Frankly, I couldn't have cared less how much the b**ch hurt. The more the better as far as I was concerned. Anyone who cared so little about the pain she caused deserved whatever she got IMHO. And don't even go there about it being all the MP's fault, or the BS's fault 'cuz they didn't "take care" of their WS. I'm in no mood for it right now. Your damn right!...Well said.
lrae Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 I have a humdinger of a story - not revenge per se but... I found out about my husband's affair after he was picked up by the police for drinking & driving while leaving the OW's house. That was in April of 2006. This week she got in an accident leaving the bar. They had to use the jaws of life to extract her from her vehicle. Physically she's OK BUT, she was charged for drinking and driving at the hospital. Anyways - I didn't wish it on her but I'm sure that I am going straight to he!! for the wave of satisfaction that flooded my entire being when I found out. I guess karma really is a bi!ch!!
FireandIce Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 This bothers me too. I mean, the OW for example thinks the BW has no business getting in her face about cheating with the BW's H. The OW in my H's A even had the nerve when I called her up after finding out about the A to tell me not to call her home anymore since her kids would hear our conversations and they didn't need to be subjected to that stuff. This from a woman who had her friend call my home to tell me my husband was cheating, even gave me the OW's name, address, and phone #, to which my daughter answered the phone and heard this crap first. WTF! Also, the then OW would pawn her 2 kids off onto her in laws or xH when she knew my H was coming over for a bj. Again, WTF! I guess when she was servicing my H, her kids came 2nd? OWs and cheaters in general are so full of double standards it's disgusting! ITA with that! The OW in my H's A drove by my house (we still weren't together yet but were working on it) and then had the nerve to call MY HOUSE when she could have just called his cell. I already knew about the affair but I couldn't believe how big her balls were to actually call my house. Well the first time she called my kids were sitting there so I was relatively calm. I sent them outside to play after that just in case she called again, which she did. I wasn't so calm when she called the second time. When she told me that he didn't love me anymore I calmly informed her that he had loved me multiple times throughout the weekend. Yeah, she was hurt and I loved every minute of it. He went to speak to her the next day and told her it was definitely over between them (he had been telling her this for weeks but she kept hanging on) because he wanted to work on our marriage. She lost it, called me again and left a really nice voice mail message telling me how much she hates me. Uhh sweetie, you were the one who spread your legs for a married man, what did you expect? Since then she has had her sister call and tell me that my husband is with another woman "right now" (funny considering I was on the other line with him when she called and he was at work....lol), has done constant drive by's (I guess to see if he's here) and lots of hang ups. She has finally stopped. As for revenge sex, yeah it crossed my mind but not for very long. I found the best thing to do was like someone else mentioned, work out and start feeling good about myself.
hurting_in_nw Posted April 16, 2007 Posted April 16, 2007 I've been trying to recover from my H's infidelities for 5 yrs. now. So broken inside. Right now our sex life is in the toilet. I find him about as attractive as navel lint. My sister just said this weekend that what I needed to do is have an affair or two myself. She's divorced and says there are plenty of good looking men out there and that I'm still attractive and fit and there's no reason why I shouldn't do it. So... your post has me thinking....really... if you can't beat them, perhaps the best thing is to go ahead and join them. I am going to read the rest of these posts. Maybe it'll keep me from cheating... and maybe not. Darn. Just went through the posts. No one's talking me out of it yet. Why should the betrayed party not have any fun? I feel like I"ve been sitting at the bus stop while everyone else has been riding the booty train. Why don't you just get out of an obviously unhappy marriage and move on as a single person. That way you won't have your conscience eating away at you knowing you went to that level.
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