Im hurting that my ex has moved on so quickly with her SISTER'S bf BROTHER

[deelove2007]

Hi everyone at loveshack,

 

Well its been 7 long hard and depressing weeks since my ex broke it off with me, her emotions just swicthed off for me and I'm feeling so angry because I feel she just used me! we got together 3mths after my farther passed away and she was going through a tuff time because her parents were going through a divorce! I met her at wrk she got so stressed out that she left the company 2mths into our relantionsip, I was supporting her emotionally, even tough I covered over my hurt and loss for my farther and finicially for 10mths!

 

towards the end of the relantionsip it was getting so sour we were fighting not really making love and bearly speaking to each other and she tried to control me all the time she hated me smoking I gave up for her can you believe it! once she got a new job she changed completely, 2weeks before our breakup I went to finish our relantionship with her because I was feeling down and depressed about my dad and she just wasn't there for me, but she talked me round to give it another go!

 

Then we went out one night and surprise surprise we had another argument, next day she called it off saying we be better off as friends and that she will always be there for me, arggh gets me so angry!

 

Now 7weeks later she hasn't tried to contact me I emailed her a few times just to see how she was, she repiled back by saying what a great time she is having going out to bars and clubs staying out till early hrs of the morning which really hurt me so I have completely gone into NC!

 

I find out on MYSPACE ( big mistake I know ) that she may be seeing her SISTER'S boyfriends BROTHER who has always had the HOTS for her and told her that before we got together he really liked her, there going to a music concert together tonight and its really made me feel so DOWN! I know she is going to get with him because it seems like they have been spending alot of time together as well there's the friendship history so she may feel she can really trust him and they also have alot in common when it comes to music and stuff and her SISTER is going out with his BROTHER for the last 6yrs!

 

Do anyone else thinks this is a bit strange my EX going out with her SISTER bf BROTHER or is it me because she has left me and I'm just trying to tell myself that to make myself feel better! Pls I would like other ppl opion on this!!!!! I just feel so LOW that she has moved on so quickly with this guy!!!

 

One thing I know for sure is that he is a real heavy heavy smoker, he tried giving up once and it made him go MAD!!! and he also thinks his a rock star playing in a band with his mates and drinking like a fish before he goes on to stage cos he thinks its soo cool!!!

 

sorry this is a long thread but I just need to get my feelings out and I love to here other ppl views on this! Thank you