alexa137 Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 well my bf finally moved out monday it was devasting--and he said i was the one who wanted him out--i never did--i'm trying the no contact thing --but we texted each other all night monday and tues and he called last night to ask me who i was with because he saw cars outside the house--he moved with his and i move tomm and tryingt o go undercover--painted my car today and getting new tags this afternoon and gonna park somewhere else--he doesnt know when and where i'm moving to(apt) unfortunaltely is 50 feet awway from his dads!!!! he is so confusing--i havent slept or ate much at all-cry all night wake up early--very stressful-- here are some of things he texted me i love you i want to be with you but not right now just want to chill i dont need no one(when i asked him if he wanted to see other girls) i do love you i dont know what i want dont know what to say dont want to mess it up forever dont want you to wait for me when i ask him to end it he wont and i try and he gets upset so i have no idea where i stand!! when i told him i thought he was using me for sex he said not true and got mad if two people love each other what can i do to make it better??? he said i messed up--but he knows and noticed ive changed my ways and wouldnt risk doing it again to ruin the relationship-- i ask him to give me another chance----why wouldnt someone who supposedly loves you to death,, wanted to be with you forever, wants me to havehis baby--wont try again? i have done nothing but try to make him happy in the last 6 weeks since he told me he wanted time apart i havent seen him since monday and that evening when i told him i found a pair of his shorts he wanted to come pick them up i told him not good idea maybe tomm bcause i wasnt ready yet--i was relaxing--so i hung them outside the door in a bag--when he was on his way he called and asked are you sure you dont want to see me? i said no how the hell do you get a straight answer from all this????/i am literally going insane and wont get depression medicine til april 4th cant stop crying!
wlminfla Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Hey Alexa, It really sounds like miscommunication is a big problem. There's too much focusing on the negative aspects of the relationship. So if you talk to him, I hope you will try to focus on some positive aspects of the relationship and see how it goes. I, for one, know exactly how quickly people can change. For two solid years, my ex told me how she wanted nothing more than to marry me. Then I buy the ring, and boom she runs for cover. Haven't heard from her since. However, I AM SO SORRY you have to go through this. I wish I could be there to give you a hug. All I can say is to hang in there and to try in anyway you can to have some fun! You deserve it. WLM
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