Erik Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Dammit, sounds like my graphics card is about to kick it, sounds like a helicopter gunship. Two months old, I'll never buy HP again.
DanielMadr Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 If you hade gone for her, maybe she would have been a dissapointment, but not going for her, you can always tell yourself she would've been perfect. I suspect quite a lot of girls use the same logic on me:D Its what bothers me these days. cowards!!!
alphamale Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Never drink and chase women. . Personally, I do my best chasing when I'm drinking....western society revolves around alcohol. If you don't want to drink then move to Saudi Arabia....maybe you will meet some nice moslem girls dressed in a veil and robe.
Erik Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Yes. Drinking and effing doesn't go together. I wish I would listen to my own advice.
DanielMadr Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Dammit, sounds like my graphics card is about to kick it, sounds like a helicopter gunship. Two months old, I'll never buy HP again. ventilator, probably. These little ventilators have crappy ball bearing.
alphamale Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Two months old, I'll never buy HP again. its all the fault of Carly Fiorina and Patricia Dunn
DanielMadr Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Personally, I do my best chasing when I'm drinking....western society revolves around alcohol. If you don't want to drink then move to Saudi Arabia....maybe you will meet some nice moslem girls dressed in a veil and robe. beer balls?
Erik Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Personally, I do my best chasing when I'm drinking....western society revolves around alcohol. If you don't want to drink then move to Saudi Arabia....maybe you will meet some nice moslem girls dressed in a veil and robe. I think you are on to something. Always wondered what was beneath all those black cloth, really enticing in fact, but I guess that is the idea. And since I drink like a camel, I should fit right in. The no-alco-approach is good over here, because it is so uncommon. I've scored girls with a real lame performance, just because she could see I was sober, it garners lots of mojo.
Erik Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 its all the fault of Carly Fiorina and Patricia Dunn Who are they? Gimme their adresses and they are DED! D.E.D, DED!
DanielMadr Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 You know ehat saddens me.... I know a couple of guys who are really good guys, hard as f@ck, reliable etc. and they dont know about 'If you are confident dont be afraid to show it in front of women.' And they end up with women who caught them unprepared and instead of love and support, they make sure they wont grow any balls. The same goes for women, when they are controlled by scums. Sad.
Erik Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 That's life. One more story, no whores. A friend of mine, also a virgin at the age of 30, medical engineer. He had the hots for a girl at work, same old same old, heard it a million times before, so I said to him, H****, invite her to the cinema, after cinema take her to a cafe, pour wine into her, and at 2300 hrs. tell her it's been a nice evening, see you at work tomorrow. He thought I was crazy, leaving a girl in the middle of a date? Today they are married, big house and such, a kid. The girl is out of his class really, cute, sweet, intelligent, beautiful. Very proud of that one, I was. He had been trying for aeons.
DanielMadr Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 That's life. One more story, no whores. A friend of mine, also a virgin at the age of 30, medical engineer. He had the hots for a girl at work, same old same old, heard it a million times before, so I said to him, H****, invite her to the cinema, after cinema take her to a cafe, pour wine into her, and at 2300 hrs. tell her it's been a nice evening, see you at work tomorrow. He thought I was crazy, leaving a girl in the middle of a date? Today they are married, big house and such, a kid. The girl is out of his class really, cute, intelligent, beautiful. Very proud of that one, I was. He had been trying for aeons. Nice. He is one lucky s.o.b. to have such a friend. Chances are he will wussy out, lose respect and tadaaaa....one more to divorce rate in Kingdom of Denmark )) Im terrible pessimist, I know. I wish them all good.
Erik Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Maybe. If I was the girl, I'd bug out, he's no great catch. But between the house and the kid they are in a financial deadlock, I say they are settled. Never know, of course, especially with a girl like her. If it wasn't because he was my friend, I'd be hitting on her myself. Someone else is bound to get the same idea. Hope the house and the kid will keep her at home, though.
DanielMadr Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Maybe. If I was the girl, I'd bug out, he's no great catch. But between the house and the kid they are in a financial deadlock, I say they are settled. Never know, of course, especially with a girl like her. If it wasn't because he was my friend, I'd be hitting on her myself. Someone else is bound to get the same idea. Hope the house and the kid will keep her at home, though. Hmm. Kids from divorced household tend to have quite a lot of problems. Trust issues, lack of attention..... I think guys are having families too young these days. Maybe it is time to travel back in time and lets have a polygamy. One mature, strong and responsible man and couple of wives with kids (his) under one roof. The other guys and girls who dont want to have children can enjoy free life with condoms. I dont know why this model was abandoned....Ill give it a though. Any idea? I have to go. Have a nice evening gentlemen.
alphamale Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Maybe it is time to travel back in time and lets have a polygamy. One mature, strong and responsible man and couple of wives with kids (his) under one roof. The other guys and girls who dont want to have children can enjoy free life with condoms. I dont know why this model was abandoned..... Its not abandoned. In some Moslem countried its still practiced, albeit rarely. I don't know if its still practiced in China. It is the best way in my opinion. And the Mormons in Utah...I forgot about them.
Erik Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I don't see why it should be illegal, not in a secular society anyway. If the girls don't like it, they are free to say no. Polyandria shoul be permitted too, of course. China largely respects traditional customs. There is a province that practices a kind of polyandria, or matrilinearity, anyway. The women are heads of the families and don't marry, they just invite a man for dinner to impregnate them, kick him out in the morning. Sounds good to me, they take care of the babies, you just get to have a nice meal and a lay.
alphamale Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 The women are heads of the families and don't marry, they just invite a man for dinner to impregnate them, kick him out in the morning. Sounds good to me, they take care of the babies, you just get to have a nice meal and a lay. there's plenty of sperm to go around 'ERIK
Erik Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Yeah, maybe I just like the idea. Actually living it might be something else.
bridget_jones Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Sure, women want to be with someone confident, but don't overdo it. I mean I guess I hear what you're saying here, but how do you tell if a guy is "confident" or not? If you try to show you're confident, usually it comes off as cocky. Give me a guy who is smitten and intrigued by me, and slightly intimidated, anyday. I'm a sucker for a guy like that. If a man is slightly insecure about approaching me, it is flattering, I know he finds me attractive and intriguing. Give me a somewhat shy, nerdy guy (not lookswise although I do like nerdy hot, the whole glasses thing) who is a sucker for me anyday over a suave, confident man with "balls." Basically, OP, I'm telling you it's OK not to have a GAME. Be Yourself!
bridget_jones Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 How would that be construed as leaving in the middle of the date? If it were that late on a date the evening before work, it's called "The End of the Date. We have to go to work " Sorry, this isn't a strategy, Erik. as a woman I would think "It's the end of the date." and if I liked him, hope he'd call. but if not, it's only one date, no biggie if he's just not that into me. Ummm..Ok? As for the original poster....if social situations are really that difficult and stressful for you, you can take a course on assertiveness. I have taken one. It really helps you see how others see you, from your body language and things you say, how you approach people. Something like this will help you in both your personal and professional life.
Erik Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Sorry, this isn't a strategy, Erik. as a woman I would think "It's the end of the date." and if I liked him, hope he'd call. but if not, it's only one date, no biggie if he's just not that into me. It IS the end of the date. The girl expects him to start hitting on her at about 2300 hrs., and is in defensive mode. Leaving confuses the hell out of her, it is awefully cool. And with the case in question, the girl was his colleague; she proposed another date herself, they were married six months later or so. We are talking about a guy that never spoke to a girl in his life without making a fool of himself.
bridget_jones Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Ok, I guess another cultural difference. 1. an early on date to me, I wouldn't be hoping or expecting action. 2. I wouldn't ask a guy out on a date until we were established as a couple. but that's great for your friend! I love happy endings.
Erik Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Me too. I get so happy every time I see them together.
DanielMadr Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 As for the original poster....if social situations are really that difficult and stressful for you, you can take a course on assertiveness. I have taken one. It really helps you see how others see you, from your body language and things you say, how you approach people. Something like this will help you in both your personal and professional life. Basically, OP, I'm telling you it's OK not to have a GAME. Be Yourself! Make up your mind Bridget. He cant be HIMSELF when he is stressed out. You cant land on Venus and not speak the language. Game doesnt mean Dirty tricks.
DanielMadr Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Sure, women want to be with someone confident, but don't overdo it. I mean I guess I hear what you're saying here, but how do you tell if a guy is "confident" or not? If you try to show you're confident, usually it comes off as cocky. Give me a guy who is smitten and intrigued by me, and slightly intimidated, anyday. I'm a sucker for a guy like that. If a man is slightly insecure about approaching me, it is flattering, I know he finds me attractive and intriguing. Give me a somewhat shy, nerdy guy (not lookswise although I do like nerdy hot, the whole glasses thing) who is a sucker for me anyday over a suave, confident man with "balls." Basically, OP, I'm telling you it's OK not to have a GAME. Be Yourself! Thats because you are dominant female. It is very rare, especially in younger species. When woman doesnt have dominant partner to walk her through life, she has to do it on her own. So she represses her submissive side, b/c submissive people cant walk alone. btw one part of dominant trait is assertivness.
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