Guest Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Can anyone tell me if I over-reacted? I met this woman online, and had a nice first date over a drink one night... We made a date for a few nights later, and I drove 45 minutes to an address she gave me (which I thought was her house) and I find her completely drunk and the couple who own/live in the house making out in the kitchen (with his shirt off). Now we are all about 30-40ish, and I'm a normal happy-go-lucky person, but somehow this just all seemed wrong to me, and I told her I wasn't comfortable coming in late on a 'party' and was going to go (it was already 9:30 on a weeknight) and she should call me on the wekend if she wanted to have a 'quiet time getting to know each other' Am I over-racting, or is it rude to invite a second date over to someone else's house, when you are quite drunk, and the hosts are making out in the kitchen? btw. I am not the kind of guy who would take advantage of the situation...
Aloros Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Rude? Or just plain weird? I'd choose the latter. And no, you're not overreacting. This would strike me as weird on the fifth, sixth, gajillionth date, much less the SECOND date. And I'm not a prude, either. It's just...weird.
3hundred Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I totally agree that it is bizarre and you are not overreacting... it could be an interesting night if it was your college days but not something quite there, if you are looking for something more long term...
Island Girl Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 Very bizarre. Talk about an uncomfortable situation! Be glad you got to see the big clear picture window that said "CRAZY" before getting in any deeper than one and a half dates.
dropdeadlegs Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I am "weird" reply number 5. I have always been skeptical of online dating sites, and your experience has made me even more leery. I do not think you overreacted and think it might be best to move on to another dating possibility.
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