Guest Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 hi all i broke up with my boyfriend 1 week ago after 2 years of drama after drama. However, I have a son and they both got really close. He is giving me money to pay for the bills (that were his anyway) we broke up because he used to drink and smoke pot and got abusive (pushing shoving, etc) and i put a restraining order on him however the last time we parted i let him back into our life 3 months later because he had given up the pot and booze (abusive because of it). So the past two months he has been smoking some pot on and off in secret and when i asked him bout it he denied it , until i found his stash and I told him to go. I was pregnant at the time with his child and i had a miscarriage last week. I'm missing him now (weird isn't it). He is leaving me alone but like i said, giving me money till i can support myself again once i get back on my feet. Is it just because I am lonely after what I have been thru the last week and a half that I am missing him. And should I stay strong and stik to my resolution.
JCD Posted March 23, 2007 Posted March 23, 2007 I would not be with a substance abuser because the substance messes up their heads and then they don't act like they should be acting. So, I would not go back to him unless he wanted to change and because he's doing drugs in secret, doesn't look like he wants to help himself to be a better person to you. So he has no respect for himself and you. I think you deserve someone better who has respect for you and your child and its health.
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