volleyballchick Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 my ex and i dated for over a year...we broke up. well im crazy in love with him and im so close to gettin him back and spending the rest of my life with him but i think i might have blew my chances yesterday. i got jealous of him and his friend bc i thought they liked each other. well i kinda got upset because im so close to gettin him that i dont want him to find someone better and not wanna be with me...so how should i handle the situation???i need some help
Erik Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 You can't swim in the same river twice. You have to get over it.
Author volleyballchick Posted March 21, 2007 Author Posted March 21, 2007 it's not that easy we've been through a lot and we know all bout each other and i was his first and he was sorta my first
kribby Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 it's not that easy we've been through a lot and we know all bout each other and i was his first and he was sorta my first No it isn't easy... but why are you so sure you are 'close to getting him back'? You could be deluding yourself. And I am sure you have a lot of living to do-- and you will go through a lot more in life that others will 'help' you with. First love is special-- but it is doubtful you will only love one person.
sb129 Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 The rest of your life? How old are you? Its hard, and it hurts, but I doubt this will be the one for the rest of your life.
Author volleyballchick Posted March 26, 2007 Author Posted March 26, 2007 i know...i mean the reason i said "close to gettin him back" is b/che would tell me that he's thinkin bout it...he would always tell me he loves me and hold my hand and cuddle with me but he would never ask me back out and then i got jealous and he said it's most likely over for good now...i mean maybe i am just kiddin myself but idk...i shared everything with him...so should i just try and froget him and move on or keep tellin myself that i love him and we'll be together again someday????
Lauriebell82 Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 i know...i mean the reason i said "close to gettin him back" is b/che would tell me that he's thinkin bout it...he would always tell me he loves me and hold my hand and cuddle with me but he would never ask me back out and then i got jealous if he does all that and doesnt want to be with u then there is a reason. move on and forget this game. he's playing games and u dont need that. and now that he says its probably over for good i wouldnt push the issue, it will just make him more angry. get over it, and move on to someone else. yes u love him, but ur gonna have to let this all go. there are other fish in the sea who wont ever want to let u go.
Fiona Posted March 27, 2007 Posted March 27, 2007 i know...i mean the reason i said "close to gettin him back" is b/che would tell me that he's thinkin bout it... You're wanting this too much. He knows it. Stop. Just stop. Don't do anything, don't say anything. No calls, mail, no nothing. Let him hang. It hasn't dawned on him, that you broke up. Once it does, he'll either come back or move on. Either way, you'll know how you stand.
Author volleyballchick Posted March 27, 2007 Author Posted March 27, 2007 oic well thanx for everything...i am not calling him that much anymore and if i see him or talk to him i act as if i am just another friend and i act as though i dont care...so i hope all goes well...but thanx to all ideas...if any of you need help, im here:)
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