guest Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 okay i'm gonna try to shorten all of this as much as possible =S lol! me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year and a half...and things have been so bumpy lately! =S our relationship was perfect for the first half a year...then things got *ugly*...all we ever did was fight and argue and i spent all of my time in tears (you have to keep in mind that i am an extremely over sensative girl...it's kinda something i can't help =S...i've had some problems my whole life with my mother and it has just made me this way...not to mention that all of my ex boyfriends cheated on me and treated me like s*it) okay well after i got sick of the fighting i brokw up with him over summer...all he ever did was call me crying and begging me to go back out with him...and i wouldnt...well eventually after not talking for a long while...i called him and we got back together! *and it was the most amazing thing once we did!!! everything was perfect! nothing less! he even bought me a promise ring for my birthday* well soon all of that faded back into the way it used to be =(((....we are constantly fighting over something! & i cry myself to sleep almost every night...don't get me wrong we have our good days but most of the time, it's bad...when i get upset i try to tell him how i feel and he puts his fingers in his ears and hums so that he can't hear me =S...how should i feel about that? and also he always ditches me for his friends...he says hes not ditching me, but to me it feels like it! like for an example he was going to ride to a basketball game with a friend and he told me i could ride with him and his friends...so i drove to my house(which is far away) and got ready and drove to my cousins house to wait for him...well he called me and said that his friend wasnt aloud to have me in the car because of his girlfriend...i cried cause i was upset and i thought well he will take me so that we can go...but he didn't =S...his exact words "im gonna go with them and you stay home, you can just go to the game tomorrow" and he left me...i mean is that right of him or am i overreacting? i love this guy with all of my heart and i kno that i wanna be with him forever...but what should i do to make things better? i mean is there anything that i can do? or does he need to step up and make some changes? someone PLEASE give me advice!!!!
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