singleagain Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 For all of those who hope for contact......think twice!! It feels awful. Here he is trying to be nice for whatever reason............and you (me) really wants to respond but there is just no way I can. Brief summary... Together a year. Engaged. Went on Vac and 2 days later he packed up and moved out. That was a year ago March 2nd. We had been on and off the entire last year. In November of last year was another attempt to work things out. We always got along great. NEVER ARGUED. It's like he just snaps. Anyways....we made it as far as Dec 27 and he snapped again. When I say snapped ....he just gets mad and says things like...You shouldn't of pissed me off....I am done with this. So I said ok. So am I. That was the last time we talked, emailed, texted....etc. UNTIL TODAY. I get this email from him >>>>>>>>> [FONT=sans-serif][sIZE=2]Hi.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=sans-serif][sIZE=2]hope all is going well [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=sans-serif][sIZE=2]thanks for forwarding the mail to me [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=sans-serif][sIZE=2]take care [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=sans-serif][sIZE=2]c-ya[/sIZE][/FONT] XXXX He had mail at my house so I put it in an envelope and mailed it to him but that was Feb 14th. (i remember b/c i thought he might think it was something for Valentines Day from me)....anyways... Tell me to be strong.....let it go. I just need some support. Thanks!!
Ssheena Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 He just responded now to something you mailed on Feb 14 (ish)?? That's bizarre. Why the XXX's? Such a "blah" note and then kisses? I think he is attempting to see what kind of response he will get from you and he doesn't deserve ANY response. BE STRONG. DELETE THE EMAIL. DO NOT LOOK AT IT. He is the same guy as before.
Author singleagain Posted March 21, 2007 Author Posted March 21, 2007 Hi ssheena. Thanks for the post. I put the xxxx in there...that was his name..i just trying to make it private. Yes...i sent it over a month ago. I just can't quit reading it over and over.... Hi Hope all is going well thanks for forwarding the mail to me take care c-ya **** I deleted it (kind of) i just moved it to another folder so i wouldn't see it everytime i logged into my email. I will be strong. I just read into things because I want there to be "something" and I know better. I just thought I would NEVER hear from him again. Thanks....singleagain
Ssheena Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 Ah, ok. Yup, it was just a thank you email. That's it. I just got one from my x (not saying thanks) saying he would send my bike to me for $125 and to send him a check and he would send me my bike and a receipt. I deleted it immediately because I know that I will look at it over and over. Outta sight, outta mind. I understand too well, reading it again and again. Everytime I look in my email I think I will see an email from him and I'm expecting one. I deleted all his emails to me and mine to him and deleted his cell phone info out of my phone and he's called me twice and left no message. I'm not sure if it is him or not because I never memorized his number but when I did a reverse lookup on the cell number it was from the same area of Cali as he is. Singleagain - me too! Celibacy is better than really bad sex thou...
Author singleagain Posted March 21, 2007 Author Posted March 21, 2007 Celibacy -- ha. I know what you mean. It's been so long for me that I really am use to it. But last night laying in bed thinking about him and that stupid email.......I started thinking about us and you know sex and thought man, it's really been a long time. I deleted his emails and mine to him long ago. His phone numbers also but it's silly because I still know them by heart. You could go to walmart and buy a new bike for 125.00? Men!!
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