tikster Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 Well, as you know, my ex broke up with me for some other girl. if not, check "left for someone else" post. its been about 3 weeks since the break up and we have not talked to eachother outside of work. he seems to be into this girl. anyways, when we are at work he keeps talking to me like nothing has happened between us. im sure that he's just doing this to make himself feel less guilty, but he keeps telling me things like what he did the night before and showing off his new watch and all these little details about what's going on. my problem is that i don't know how or if i should do the no contact thing. im pretty much over him, but im still very upset as to the way that he was sneaking around talking to her while we were still together and also how he lied to me when we broke up and allowed me to find out about their " budding" relationship in such a cruel way. i don't know why he is doing this to me because its obvious that he never cared about me. i really don't like him, as a person. so i want to know if i am justified in ignoring him when he tries to talk to me or am i just being petty?
shockandawed Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 Tikster, I am sure it is difficult in having to work with this guy. Any chance you could get relocated to have less contact? Regardless, you owe him nothing. Not sure how long you were together, but being broken up 3 weeks is nothing. And he is already getting gifts from his new girl? Sounds like he wants to keep you dangling and interested. Just tell him that you no longer are interested in his affairs or what goes on in his life and you would prefer for him not to talk to you any longer. That is very selfish of him to constantly be talking about details of his new relationship to you.
Icantletgo Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 I agree. I'm not familiar with your story but if this guy lied to you and LEFT you for someone else than you can leave him...hanging when he tries to talk to you! And bravo for you for "being over it". move on and why have a liar be part of your everyday life....
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