derekB Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 I met a girl a few months ago at my friends birthday party. we dated a few times and there was serious chemistry between us. We got on really well and never had any awkward moments. After a few nights together when we were about to get it on she said she felt funny about things. She had a bad feeling about us and that she would feel sick if we were to be together. She said she couldnt explain it but that she was annoyed because she really fancies me and there is a great chemistry. I thought she was letting me down gently but then i met her last night by surprise and the chemistry is still there. She was giving me lots of attention. I really like her but dont know if i should let it go or not? I think she might have commitment issues. Any ideas?
Lauriebell82 Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 wait, she is confused about whether or not to sleep with u, or just date u? if she's not ready to sleep with u she doesn't have committment issues, she's just not ready to have sex with u!!!! maybe she feels funny sleeping wtih soemone she hasnt known that long. i feel the same way about it. even if i am sooooo attracted to the guy, i still cant sleep wtih them until iknow them better and we are in a relationship. give her time, and DONT PRESSURE HER. my advice is to just keep getting to know her, and give her time. even if u do have really great chemistry, waiting until ur absolutely ready to have sex with someone makes it all that much better.
derekB Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 that night she said she was unsure about the potential relationship even though she has never liked a guy as much as she does me and that she has never been honest about it with a guy like she has with me. last night though she casually mentioned meeting up in the summer - we'll both be in cali around the same time. Maybe i should let it be for a while and if its meant to be it will come back to me. She is going travelling for a while anyway.
thelipless Posted March 21, 2007 Posted March 21, 2007 she is scared of breaking up with you when you get serious. Its the one time, when a girl says "we should stay friends" they actually mean it. You both know you have great chemistry, you have been out with her, and she enjoys you, as you enjoy her. There are some girls i get along with so well that i wouldnt not dare to date due to problems that might arise if we were to breakup.
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