Guest Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 im in need of some advice and would like it to come from a womans prospective. all other comments are welcomed too tho. Well for about a month i started talking to this girl on the phone all the time, but i never asked her out or anything like that. She would call me a lot and ditto for me. Well now she is talking to a guy i kno and they probably will hook up. The thing is she knows i liked her. Well last night she Imed me bc i saw her at a party the night b4 and she apologized for not telling me she was talking to the guy i kno. She went on to say i just kinda happened and yaddda yadda ya...but the thing is i knew she was lieing bc she said she wanted the number to give to her friend in which she then named a name. then last night when she was apologiziing i caught her in a lie bc she said the number was originally for a friend, but this time named a different friends name..and i blasted her on that. She then said im just full lies and stuff tryin to make me feel sry for her i guess. I personally said i didnt care and its whatever and as soon as i said that she tried to change it up and say "no its not whatever...i kno ur pissed" even tho i said i didnt care...am i pissed? yes i am, but i didnt want to tell her i was. i am very attracted to this girl and i liked talking to her, but like i said shes probably gunna start dating this guy, which is a freakin bumber. Partly my fault tho bc i didnt make a move. As of right now i have cut off contact w/ her even saw her today working out at school, but i made no eye contact nor said anything, just said hi to her friend whom was sitting right next to her. like i said i did (maybe even still do) like this girl, but i dont kno whether or not to continue to keep up the silent treatment and the no contacting or b her friend bc u never kno in the future...the thing im thinking about is if im her friend and keep talking to her as friends ill get depressed bc just the thought of her w/ him sucks majorly. I really would like some input from y'all and especially the ladies bc well i cant think like a woman lol. What do you ladies think i should do? and if you were in her position what would you think or how would you want thing? thanks for your help and all other comments are welcomed as well. im just lost right now and could use some help to get me back on track...a bit of info on myself btw is im a college sophmore and the girl is a freshman as well as the guy she is talking to no.
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