Zankon Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 i had posted here a couple of mnths back about my story. I broke up with my GF in january. At many instances, she asked me to take her back but I'd had it and I didn't wanna relive what we both went through in the previous 6 months. I'm not gonna deny she's a great person adn very loving but for somereasn we weren't meant to be. Anyways, she used to text me almost every day and I responded to all her txts. But lately she hasn't and it came to my attention she's a got some one new in her life. And it annoyed the sh. i . t out of me. I don't know why I have this feeling... I still don t want her back and I still will never get back together with her for all the good reasons why we broke up in the first place... My question is: why am I feeling this and all these butterflies annoy me!!! I just don't get it, can anybody explain?
alphamale Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 so basically you don't want her and you don't want any one else to have her? is that correct?? if it is correct then tell your ego to be quiet.
Erik Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Well, you've had it coming. Your post will make a lot of the girls in here insanely happy. Next time when you break up with a girl, don't answer her texts. Did you think you were being nice to her by doing so? What you suffer from is attention cold turkey, your ego is in flattery withdrawal. You deserve it, so suck it up.
Author Zankon Posted March 19, 2007 Author Posted March 19, 2007 alphamale: no I don't want her back and I want her to have somebody else to make her life happy... I m not one of those weirdos... it's the butterflies that I dont understand. Erik: I answered her txt because I thought it was rude not to... then I did NC and she'd send me txt like "I am a good person and I dont deserve to be ignored like this, can you please answer me" so it got into me and i answered. Maybe you guys are right, it's just my ego acting up a little...
pennyjosix Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 You still have feelings for her. Simple as that.
Erik Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Erik: I answered her txt because I thought it was rude not to... then I did NC and she'd send me txt like "I am a good person and I dont deserve to be ignored like this, can you please answer me" so it got into me and i answered. I hear you. I even understand you, I've been doing the same thing myself when I was young. It's hard to resist, but believe me, it leads to nothing but hurt. As the one that makes the break, it is your responsibility to be the strong one. It would also save you the agony you are now experiencing.
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