chill chic Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 I met this guy awhile back when I was working at the hospital. He was a pharmaceutical rep so he'd stop by the office of where I worked & would always say hi, smile & flirt w/me. Well I had a bf at the time so I didn't pursue anything although my friend gave me his business card (just in case lol) About 3 months later I got a job somewhere & then eventually broke up w/my bf. The other day I was going through my business cards of who I can network w/since I'm in the insurance biz now & I came across his card. So I decided to email him & he emailed me back w/a nice email & sorta flirty. I had been dropping hints & he told me he wants to do lunch w/me sometime so he can talk w/me about insurance since he used to be in the business. Well, I thought the whole time he was single, but when he invited me to his bday party tomorrow night, he told me that he'd have to tell his wife to stay home! I had seen his homepage & it said married, but I thought it was a joke, & because he flirts w/me. He tells me how cute I am, & especially dropping that line about leaving his wife at home if I come. I wrote him back saying it might be a lil strange if I go, but I'm wondering if I should go or not go? I want to go because we're new found friends again, but would it be a lil awkward for me to go? I wouldn't know anyone else there besides him, so hmm, what to do? What is he thinking of me?
Pyro Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 I met this guy awhile back when I was working at the hospital. He was a pharmaceutical rep so he'd stop by the office of where I worked & would always say hi, smile & flirt w/me. Well I had a bf at the time so I didn't pursue anything although my friend gave me his business card (just in case lol) About 3 months later I got a job somewhere & then eventually broke up w/my bf. The other day I was going through my business cards of who I can network w/since I'm in the insurance biz now & I came across his card. So I decided to email him & he emailed me back w/a nice email & sorta flirty. I had been dropping hints & he told me he wants to do lunch w/me sometime so he can talk w/me about insurance since he used to be in the business. Well, I thought the whole time he was single, but when he invited me to his bday party tomorrow night, he told me that he'd have to tell his wife to stay home! I had seen his homepage & it said married, but I thought it was a joke, & because he flirts w/me. He tells me how cute I am, & especially dropping that line about leaving his wife at home if I come. I wrote him back saying it might be a lil strange if I go, but I'm wondering if I should go or not go? I want to go because we're new found friends again, but would it be a lil awkward for me to go? I wouldn't know anyone else there besides him, so hmm, what to do? What is he thinking of me? He has made quite a few references to being married. I think that he may trying to hide that fact from you, so that is a big NO on going to the party with him. He sounds like trouble.
TheSwordfish Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Simple logic: -He said he's married. -He said he'll leave his wife at home. -If You go to the party with him thinks you're okay with that fact. -He might think you are into jumping into the basket with a married man. I think he is looking for something..... If he wanted to be just friends he would introduce you to his wife. He thinks you're a hot barbiedoll, to show off at a party, and maybe more....
PracticalShade Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 first off... you took his card just in case? are all women like this? already having plans for guy's they'd pursue if their current relationship ends? that makes my eye twitch to think about because my g/f and I just broke up. anyway, he did tell you about the wife. but the question comes in when he says he'd leave her at home. what are his intentions with you if he wants to leave his wife at home?
TheSwordfish Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 first off... you took his card just in case? are all women like this? already having plans for guy's they'd pursue if their current relationship ends? that makes my eye twitch to think about because my g/f and I just broke up. Some girls are like this. They exchange phone numbers and MSN because they think you're hot and might be handy when her boyfriend leaves her. These are the girl that stay in contact with you, act all flirty, even make remarks like: "If I didn't have a b/f, I would..." while still in a relationship. Some just can't help acting on their instincts and when they feel atracted to you, they will remember you, but as long as the history she has with her b/f and the safety of the relationship (ratinoal factors) outweigh her urges she won't act on them.
Author chill chic Posted March 20, 2007 Author Posted March 20, 2007 uhh...nevermind lol bad situation...
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