PinkShorts Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 You didn't strike a nerve, babe. You truly sound insane. It seems you've been solicited out of the wordwork... Done with the juvenile spewing? Everything about you is highly offensive. You don't sound highly unstable to me.
Chapter2 Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Thanks Pink shorts....I'm not unstable... but here's a quote from you that sure sounds like you admit you're bitter: Originally Posted by enoughisenough Silk probably IS bitter. Mostof us BS are. Why wouldn't we be? And how does that invalidate our thoughts and opinions? The "you are bitter" card gets tossed out a lot here, as if to say BS should just get over it and suck it up. WFE." I don't invalidate actual mature discussions made, but most of what I'm hearing is senseless bickering and attacking so far with not much merit. Maybe that bitterness and negativity should be directed at who deserves it and is at the center of your frustrations. But I guess most of you just let those people get off scott free, while you start berating anyone else on the board who would not accept the type of behavior from a loved one that you do. You don't sound highly unstable to me.
MrsHellFire Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 You are a complete freak PS...you have no clue what you're talking about. I'm embarrassed for you. honestly. I'm embarrassed when someone has the nerve to verbally attack to the extent you do on a board that is meant for support and CONSTRUCTIVE advice/criticism. You give neither and should be completely ashamed of yourself for stooping so low.
Chapter2 Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Excuse me?!?! Read the rest of it! Have you bothered to read what everyone else wrote? I'm embarrassed when someone has the nerve to verbally attack to the extent you do on a board that is meant for support and CONSTRUCTIVE advice/criticism. You give neither and should be completely ashamed of yourself for stooping so low.
MrsHellFire Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Excuse me?!?! Read the rest of it! Have you bothered to read what everyone else wrote? Maybe you should re-read your posts. You are clearly provoking everyone with your very nasty verbal attacks and trying to dig up dirt on people. Good lord, how low can you go? Everyone here is in some kind of pain, why even try to shove that in someone's face? You have no thought for anyone else's feelings but your own.
Chapter2 Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 You couldn't be more wrong. If that's what you need to believe then do so. The original poster is obviously in pain...did you bother to read others posts made directly to her? How ironic that you single me out. Maybe you should re-read your posts. You are clearly provoking everyone with your very nasty verbal attacks and trying to dig up dirt on people. Good lord, how low can you go? Everyone here is in some kind of pain, why even try to shove that in someone's face? You have no thought for anyone else's feelings but your own.
PinkShorts Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Watch who you are quoting before you refer to me. You are making absolutely no sense and need SLEEP!
Chapter2 Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 You know what...that's something I can absolutely agree on...I definitely need sleep and this is a complete waste of time. Guess I'm not that far off from others on this thread who took the time to answer their own posts. Sleep well. Watch who you are quoting before you refer to me. You are making absolutely no sense and need SLEEP!
PinkShorts Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 You know what...that's something I can absolutely agree on...I definitely need sleep and this is a complete waste of time. Guess I'm not that far off from others on this thread who took the time to answer their own posts. Sleep well. I don't know what you're talking about but I don't want to leave on a bad note. I didn't mean to insult anyone but being truthful to myself, I gave an honest opinion whether how right or wrong to some.Just don't want to be berated for it. GN!
Chapter2 Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 There is pain all over this board including my own. You have every right to your opinion and I honestly don't want to fight. Sleep well. I don't know what you're talking about but I don't want to leave on a bad note. I didn't mean to insult anyone but being truthful to myself, I gave an honest opinion whether how right or wrong to some.Just don't want to be berated for it. GN!
cr8sea Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Ohh man! ok so this is most definitely not healthy, mature, or reasonable.....BUT ITS FREAKING HILARIOUS!!! I can see why you're having so much fun with it. and although my morals dont condone it, my mischiveous side is giving you a high five for it. So ok, lets put morals aside for a second. I say, get your revenge against her, but then, just as he thinks he has you right where he wants you...time to get the revenge on him. Dump his ass, find yourselve a nice guy and move right along. ...and pray karma doesnt come to bite you!!! lol!
Trialbyfire Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 lol, karma won't bite sara500, she's karma embodied. Go sara go.
bridget_jones Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 This is exactly what I was thinking about this situation, only you were able to word it better. Good job. What would be more empowering would be to walk away and let the sack of sh*t see what he is missing and will never have again. Reducing myself to his and his new wife's level by sleeping with the very man who was responsible for my pain and suffering would, personally, feel like rolling around in the filth with them. And I am sure he is having a ball with having the attention of both of these women. Seems to me he is the one who is reaping all the benefits. And I can't understand why the OP isn't moving on with her life. He certainly has by marrying his new wife.... I don't understand why anyone would reduce themselves to that level and backslide in such a manner. I would think that the OP would have better things to do than to willingly continue in such a dysfunctional situation. To me, sleeping with this man who is totally unworthy, shows a lack of self respect. For she has reduced herself from being his wife to being his play toy. Not a step in the right direction. IMHO.[/quote
GreenEyedLady Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Dump his ass, find yourselve a nice guy and move right along. ...and pray karma doesnt come to bite you!!! lol! I believe from her previous post that she's already with a SG as well... Anyone put in a call to Jerry Springer yet?
Author sara500 Posted March 25, 2007 Author Posted March 25, 2007 OMG! This thread is 16 pages long! Get over it already. Yes. I am sleeping with my ex-H. So what? The majority of you "OW" are also sleeping with a MM. You are NO better. You're just upset because another OW married her MM and her husband is now cheating on her with his ex-w. Get over yourself. To all you other OW, were you thinking about his children or your children (if you have any) when you were sleeping with your MM. I bet not. You were thinking about yourself. You didn't say OMG if I sleep with him and his wife find out, this could impact his children's life. Instead of the children living in the house with both parents, they will be living with one parent at a time and probably his mistress. If my ex and his new wife get a divorce, my children wouldn't be hurt. come on. You giving the relationship between my children and his new OW turned wife a little to much credit. She is like a paid babysitter. They will still get to see their half-sibling as it is still their father's child. Why should I care about her child? Was she looking out for mine when she was humping their father knowing he was married? Nope don't think so. What happens if he breaks up with his wife because he found someone else (not me) wouldn't that impact the children's life according to some of you? There is NO guarantee that anyone's marriage will last. Don't even preach that if you stay away from her husband it has a chance. Because she didn't stay away from my husband. Don't say negative things about me unless you are looking at yourself. You are no better. One of you even posted that you don't care about your MM vows but you care about yours. Wow. No. I don't recognize their so called "affair" marriage. Why didn't any of your "OW" criticize my ex-h "OW" turned wife? Did you think by her sleeping with my then husband that she was wrong. Of course not. Because that is what all of you are doing.. You meet a MM and have an affair. You want to call his wife if he don't break up with his wife and live with them. You give him an option of staying with you or telling his wife. I read on here how one OW MM left his wife and she was so happy. She was given the thumbs up from you other OW. But yet, you criticize me. Do you not think you are hurting the MM children when you are sleeping with him. Do you not think you are not hurting his children as you persuaded their father to leave mommy so you can shack up with him. You actually believe that YOU will live a "fairytale"ending. Well, you are disillusioned. In the back of your mind, you will questioned is he faithful because you know he was unfaithful to his wife when he was sleeping with you. No matter the reason he told you, he should have divorced his wife before he started having an affair with you whether it was emotional or physical. You OW who are critizing me are hypocrites. It good if the OW sleep with the MM and the MM divorce their wife and then continue their relationship but it's wrong for the ex-w to continue to sleep with their MM. I don't care about their relationship just like YOU don't care about your MM's relationship with his wife. The difference between me and the rest of you criticizing "OW" is that you are sitting around waiting for your MM and pounder on whether or not he sleeps with his wife. You think that if he leaves his wife that he really love you. You hope that you can live this fairy tale with your MM when him and his wife divorce. You want to be a stepmom to their children. The very children that YOU help ruin their life by sleeping around with THEIR daddy while their daddy was married to THEIR mother. Then you wonder why the children resist you. You think children don't know about your? Do you think the children will "love" you and embrace you. BTW, my children live with me. He has visitation. She is there babysitter! Simply put. She deserves everything she get. I hope you don't think this is the first time this type of stuff occur. Ask him if he leave his wife would he go back and sleep with her and he will tell you NO. He hates her. Now, think about when his wife ask him if he is having an affair. He probably tells her NO. If he got caught with you, you can best believe he will deny that he is still seeing you and probably call you a couple of choice words. See I don't sit around waiting for him. I don't care where he is at. He calls me and we have our "fun" when I am available and want to. I don't sit around wondering if he is sleeping with his wife. I don't want to re-marry him either. Ask me why I am doing this? The answer: Because I can. No, I don't have poor self esteem and need counseling. I think you "OW" who are depressed about your MM not wanting to leave his wife and whether or not he is still sleeping with his wife are the ones that need counseling. So get over yourself. If you think I should find a single man so should you. Oh. Come on. What do you think
GreenEyedLady Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Once again Sara, I think you need to check your facts before you go on a rant...most of the OW who even touched this thread are XOW... Secondly, it really doesn't matter if you validate their Affair M or not cuz guess what?! The law does! That's what matters here...not whether you or anyone else consider their M real... The fact that you are hell bent on revenge is your problem...and all the hogwash about you not caring where he is etc. WHATEVER! If you really didn't care, you wouldn't be posting here and you wouldn't give him the time of day except for co-parenting issues... But good luck! You're not proving anything that anyone else didn't already know...and for what it's worth, I think you and your XH made a great couple...
Author sara500 Posted March 25, 2007 Author Posted March 25, 2007 GreenEyeLady, You're right. I need to check my facts. So I have a few questions I was hoping you would answer. Are you an OW or exOW? If either, what was going through your head when you were sleeping with your current or ex MM? Why did you do it? BTW, Why are you on this forum? Are you looking for advice or want to give advice because you were burnt.
ridingthebulls Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 Of course they are xow.. their mM dumped their fat a$$es.. most weren't X BY CHOICE! The only choice probably made was being tired of being treated like a cheap tramp and tossed aside.. they had to get out for their own mental well-being. Sara is right on the mark too. Most women are catty jealous self-righteous hypocrites! It was ok for you to have your fling but now that it's done, you actually think you have the right to condemn??? In your dream cheap tramps
IfWishesWereHorses Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 I understand your anger and bitterness completely. I agree with what you said about OW only caring about themselves. I LOVE that you are exacting revenge. I am willing to live vicariously through you (keep us updated). BUT the day my AW H is out of my life he will NEVER touch me again. Some other OW can ruin his new wifes life, they are beneath me. I also wonder how much good is done if she never finds out? I don't care about your children any more than you do, who should. I hope that you don't get hurt. I hope that once the anger subsides that you can move on and find "real" happiness. Vengence isn't happiness. It might feel just and good but it can't provide the peace and joy that you so much deserve. It isn't a moral question in my eyes. I hope you are able to let him go "completely" one day. If not, I'm still a fan of copious amounts of poison ive applied to the genitals!!!! (KIDDING!) Good luck to you.
Author sara500 Posted March 25, 2007 Author Posted March 25, 2007 GreenEyeLady, Here are some facts you posted before, I had to do a litte research first. You were married had two children and got a divorce. You also had or still having an affair with a MM and once last Christmas he came over and made you breakfast and you pretended not to care. You also have been giving "great" advice to the other OW but yet you criticize me. So you are a hypocrite! Hey by the way I believe you are angry because my husband's OW is being cheated on with the very woman he told her he probably despised. Get over yourself GreenEyeLady and quit trying to be self-rightous when you aren't. You were with a MM too. So, you are no better. By the way, sorry you were going to spend Christmas by yourself until your MM made time. He probably told his wife he had to go do something. He sure as hell didn't spend all day with you unless he lied to his wife. OW like you make it so easy to do with I am doing.
ridingthebulls Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 AND HER X AND THE CHEAP TRAMP OW do belong together. Let their deceit eat up that rotten piece of crap marriage alive. Sara doesn't want his pathetic ass anymore except for sex. And it appears that is all he is good for anyways now of days. Sex and money, if even that. Oh and his sperm are good swimmers.. doesn't have the sense to use condoms with the whores and then probably looked dumbfounded when his marriage fell apart.. LOL
americus Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 This situation is really amusing. The OW-NOW WIFE is so smug and pompous with her head up in the clouds and because of this has a distorted sense of security/trust in this ridiculous relationship which has only gotten this far because she has gotten PG. She doesn't have any sense. A woman has many options also to avoid pregnancy. I wouldn't be suprised if she did this on purpose to trap your husband. I don't see any other answer for this mess. I would make an effort to have sex in her house one day while she's home. She's so caught up in her own little world, she might never expect a thing called REALITY!
GreenEyedLady Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 GreenEyeLady, You're right. I need to check my facts. So I have a few questions I was hoping you would answer. Are you an OW or exOW? If either, what was going through your head when you were sleeping with your current or ex MM? Why did you do it? BTW, Why are you on this forum? Are you looking for advice or want to give advice because you were burnt. Maybe if you actually READ what people posted you have seen that I said in this very thread that I was LIED to about his marital status and that I ended the A... But oh yeah, you just want to actually read the posts where you hear what you want to hear... And I'm here to help others, not gloat for acting unclassy...
americat Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 I like this situation. The OW- NOW WIFE is so smug and pompous with her head up in the clouds that she has such a distorted sense of security/trust in this ridiculous relationship/marriage which has only gotten this far only because of her winding up PG. And with so many options for a woman to prevent pregnancy, it looks like she used her womb to trap this man. I really don't see any other realistic view than she got pregnant on purpose. She got her way. She doesn't seem to have any guilt or conscience in destroying your marriage which is why I think this. I would make it a point to have sex in his house with her home one day. I bet she wouldn't have a clue because she is so out of touch with reality.
GreenEyedLady Posted March 25, 2007 Posted March 25, 2007 GreenEyeLady, Here are some facts you posted before, I had to do a litte research first. You were married had two children and got a divorce. You also had or still having an affair with a MM and once last Christmas he came over and made you breakfast and you pretended not to care. You also have been giving "great" advice to the other OW but yet you criticize me. So you are a hypocrite! Hey by the way I believe you are angry because my husband's OW is being cheated on with the very woman he told her he probably despised. Get over yourself GreenEyeLady and quit trying to be self-rightous when you aren't. You were with a MM too. So, you are no better. By the way, sorry you were going to spend Christmas by yourself until your MM made time. He probably told his wife he had to go do something. He sure as hell didn't spend all day with you unless he lied to his wife. OW like you make it so easy to do with I am doing. I'm not a hypocrite at all...and if you really did your research you'd know where you're wrong... As for everything else...I guess you really do go out of your way to try to hurt others...it's too bad...everything I said I stand behind as trying to help you...You can make all jabs you want but it really doesn't amount to anything but you looking like a sad, bitter woman...I hope that one day you realize what you've become and find a better place...
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