Author TheSwordfish Posted March 19, 2007 Author Posted March 19, 2007 Exactly. There are girls interested in nothing serious just a quick ...... and you can score with them, because imitating jerk you are easily disposable. If you want something more, grow some more balls, you wussy:D haha, Grow grapes I do think that's the type I bump into most of the time. Being a cold jerk sounds fun though Well, it's not always girls you mention. Quite a few wanted way more then I'm ready for (and I'm not talking about weird things). The phone thing is true though. And a number isn't much.
DanielMadr Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 haha, Grow grapes I do think that's the type I bump into most of the time. Being a cold jerk sounds fun though Well, it's not always girls you mention. Quite a few wanted way more then I'm ready for (and I'm not talking about weird things). The phone thing is true though. And a number isn't much. If you would "play" girls you are more then ready for.....well....but it needs real "peace of mind" to pick these. I mean when you go for girls you are not so interested in, your subconsciousnes is hesitant and other people can feel that. Stop collecting notches and attention like some attention wh00re. If your heart doesnt let you go for less, dont go there. Go for the cream or die trying. Stop sharpening your game on girls you dont care about....it is lame.
Pyro Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 I just feel that if you really trusted in the fact that you're interesting to other people, then you wouldn't brag so much. just understand that some people will see your jokes and comments as hiding insecurity. Generally speaking, this is so true abou those type of people.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 19, 2007 Author Posted March 19, 2007 I think there is a big difference between genuine bragging and being almost sarcastic. When out on a date I never brag about things I've achieved or anything like that and I listen as much as possible. But if a girl brings up silly questions, I give silly answers. If poeple don't get the humor, that's not my fault. My comment about the tranvestite was genuine though
Pyro Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 I think there is a big difference between genuine bragging and being almost sarcastic. When out on a date I never brag about things I've achieved or anything like that and I listen as much as possible. But if a girl brings up silly questions, I give silly answers. If poeple don't get the humor, that's not my fault. My comment about the tranvestite was genuine though Sure, but everyone has a different perception on things. Not everyone is going to see something the way that you see it, so you may want to let them know that you are kidding if they look like that they are taking what you say seriously.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 19, 2007 Author Posted March 19, 2007 Usually my body language and the way I say it confirm I´m joking. On a forum it is harder to do that
Pyro Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Usually my body language and the way I say it confirm I´m joking. On a forum it is harder to do that It is harder on an online forum but not everyone can tell by your body language or the way you say it. We are all built differently so just because you can tell doesn't mean that everyone can.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 19, 2007 Author Posted March 19, 2007 Maybe I should dance like the mupper in your avatar to confirm it Just to be sure
Pyro Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Maybe I should dance like the mupper in your avatar to confirm it Just to be sure You have to have the right moves in order to imitate Gonzo. very few are able to do it right.
VirtualInsanity Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 I have the same problem myself. The way I talk is nothing but joking and being a smarty. It's the way I am. Sometimes I forget that not everyone can take a joke or has a sense of humor. It's a shame but you do have to know when and who to do and whom to not do it too. Otherwise you give them the wrong impression and sometimes that's not good.
Pyro Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 I have the same problem myself. The way I talk is nothing but joking and being a smarty. It's the way I am. Sometimes I forget that not everyone can take a joke or has a sense of humor. It's a shame but you do have to know when and who to do and whom to not do it too. Otherwise you give them the wrong impression and sometimes that's not good. I too am a smartas$ by nature. That just seems to be my style of humor, but I don't show that side of me right away because I know that it could offend someone or they may take it the wrong way since they don't know me. Sometimes that side of me does slip out but I do assure them that I am only joking and that if you get to know me, you will see that is who I am.
DanielMadr Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Usually my body language and the way I say it confirm I´m joking. On a forum it is harder to do that Its not you are funny or not. Everyone with at least half brain knows you are not too serious with yourself. Its just that cocky jokes can be funny but by pulling them you are just trying too hard. When you use them it says....'He is not wussy but he seems trying to charm me.' From my experience its better to shut up than giving lines. Be aware of fact that girls can bluff, wait etc. much better than the best seducer. They are in demand. you are not. To make yourself on demand part of graph, you have to be 100% sure. 100% sure people dont need to talk about it;) ....and they dont really care, they just are.
VirtualInsanity Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 I too am a smartas$ by nature. That just seems to be my style of humor, but I don't show that side of me right away because I know that it could offend someone or they may take it the wrong way since they don't know me. Sometimes that side of me does slip out but I do assure them that I am only joking and that if you get to know me, you will see that is who I am. Not me. I'm like that all around unless I know ahead of time that person can't take a joke. Okay maybe not at first but most of the time I do. Usually if that person can't take a joke I get bord real quick and move on to someone else. I shall not have no negative oras around me.
Pyro Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Not me. I'm like that all around unless I know ahead of time that person can't take a joke. Okay maybe not at first but most of the time I do. Usually if that person can't take a joke I get bord real quick and move on to someone else. I shall not have no negative oras around me. Well I want them to get to know my serious and caring side before anything. The humor comes in second.
VirtualInsanity Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Be aware of fact that girls can bluff, wait etc. much better than the best seducer. They are in demand. you are not. To make yourself on demand part of graph, you have to be 100% sure. 100% sure people dont need to talk about it;) ....and they dont really care, they just are. Oh yes I'm a good bluffer. It's fun watching the person figure out if you are or not.
Pyro Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Its not you are funny or not. Everyone with at least half brain knows you are not too serious with yourself. Its just that cocky jokes can be funny but by pulling them you are just trying too hard. When you use them it says....'He is not wussy but he seems trying to charm me.' From my experience its better to shut up than giving lines. There does come a point when you are trying too hard. The best jokes about yourself are the ones where you don't take yourself too seriously.
DanielMadr Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 Not me. I'm like that all around unless I know ahead of time that person can't take a joke. Okay maybe not at first but most of the time I do. Usually if that person can't take a joke I get bord real quick and move on to someone else. I shall not have no negative oras around me. btw best way to know if a girl is stuck up lalalalal or uptight is to make a fun of her. Some just dont get it. They think you are mean, b/c they are mean.
VirtualInsanity Posted March 19, 2007 Posted March 19, 2007 btw best way to know if a girl is stuck up lalalalal or uptight is to make a fun of her. Some just dont get it. They think you are mean, b/c they are mean. That's mean. I tend to do it back myself.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 20, 2007 Author Posted March 20, 2007 I myself tend to call it a case of penis envy..... Compensation for a lack of volume in other departments...
VirtualInsanity Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 I myself tend to call it a case of penis envy..... Compensation for a lack of volume in other departments... That made me laugh. Thanks.
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