TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 I had a date with this girl. She was completely crazy for me, after meeting me once. I thought eveything went great, didn't call her immidately after our first date (dating other girls as well). Now I heard she was afraid I would be bad news (because she heard about me being womanizer and such) and that I would be the kind of guy that would only break her heart with my games. Now she jumped right into the arms of her male best friend aka super wussy, who was after her all the time. I thought that wasn't supposed to happen. It's not so much about the girl, but more about this unfolding in a way that I thought wasn't possible. Am I going insane...... Or are those crazy scientists right that woman change their mind with their cycle?
LaughMachine Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Lol instead of analyzing it just except the fact that maybe she wasn't as interested in you as you thought she was? If that isn't the case. I don't see why she would settle for a " wussy " Maybe she is trying to make you jealous? eh?
norajane Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Believe it or not, there are some girls who would rather avoid the heartbreak that goes along with falling for a player/womanizer. And there are girls who see the value in a man who only wants her, though he appears to YOU to be a wuss.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 Lol instead of analyzing it just except the fact that maybe she wasn't as interested in you as you thought she was? If that isn't the case. I don't see why she would settle for a " wussy " Maybe she is trying to make you jealous? eh? Hey let me analyze, lol Already figured out she wasn't as interested as I thought. Or at least she decided that she wants someone who has more time for her. The jealous bit, well, if a girl uses that strategy on me (I've seen quite a few girls trying to make me jealous after something ended) I usually laugh about it. Wouldn't make that much sense though. And besides, what would I do about it? I think being jealous is a waste of time It just goes against eveything i always thought
Salicious Crumb Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 I had a date with this girl. She was completely crazy for me, after meeting me once. I thought eveything went great, didn't call her immidately after our first date (dating other girls as well). Now I heard she was afraid I would be bad news (because she heard about me being womanizer and such) and that I would be the kind of guy that would only break her heart with my games. Now she jumped right into the arms of her male best friend aka super wussy, By calling this other guy a wussy, then you must be that macho alphamale jackass that plays with women's heads. Looks like the people that told her you are a womanizer are correct.
IpAncA Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 According to you this guy is. Is what she heard true?
bridget_jones Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Who are you to call him a wussy? Maybe she just LIKES him, is ATTRACTED to him and wants to go OUT with him. What other people said she said about you, that doesn't matter, it appears she is more into this guy than you anyway. I can understand from your post why she wouldn't want to go out with you.
Walk Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 If you weren't bothered by her not wanting to go out with you again, then why call the other guy "a wuss"? Wouldn't you just be happy that you helped this girl realize what it was she's looking for in a partner? Why you gotta rip the other guy down?
bridget_jones Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Also, just because she's not into you has nothing to do with her cycle.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 According to you this guy is. Is what she heard true? uhm.... In a way it is.... .
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 Also, just because she's not into you has nothing to do with her cycle. Hey that was a joke! it's about teh research that girls want a guy that looks big and strong at certain moments and a guy that looks caring at others.
taylor Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 I had an opportunity to go out on a lunch date with a player (womanizer) about 5 months ago. I called him Mr. Abercrombie. He was great to look at and he sure had a way with words. But not a brain in his head. I was bored before we finished our meal. Players know how to "work" a club full of women, but they fall short of holding a girl's interest in any meaningful conversation. All fluff, no substance. What is the definition of a wussy guy, anyways?
IpAncA Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 uhm.... In a way it is.... . Don't give me that I'm confused smily thing. If your bad news and what she heard is true then there you go. Guess she'll take her chances with "wussy" guy.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 If you weren't bothered by her not wanting to go out with you again, then why call the other guy "a wuss"? Wouldn't you just be happy that you helped this girl realize what it was she's looking for in a partner? Why you gotta rip the other guy down? Hey the guy is a great guy. I even like him. But I thought it hardly happens like this.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 I had an opportunity to go out on a lunch date with a player (womanizer) about 5 months ago. I called him Mr. Abercrombie. He was great to look at and he sure had a way with words. But not a brain in his head. I was bored before we finished our meal. Players know how to "work" a club full of women, but they fall short of holding a girl's interest in any meaningful conversation. All fluff, no substance. What is the definition of a wussy guy, anyways? Hey I can have deep conversations..... silence..... Girls usually tell me I'm a great listener The wussy guy, well that's hard to define. I think it is the guy that does everything she asks without much resistance?
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 Don't give me that I'm confused smily thing. If your bad news and what she heard is true then there you go. Guess she'll take her chances with "wussy" guy. haha, well i'm not bad news! I never use other poeple, I just seem to be able to get girls to chase me after one short meeting. And it's not becasue I stole their wallet But she thinks I'm a one night stand kind of person. Wich I'm not!
IpAncA Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 haha, well i'm not bad news! I never use other poeple, I just seem to be able to get girls to chase me after one short meeting. And it's not becasue I stole their wallet But she thinks I'm a one night stand kind of person. Wich I'm not! Sure sure sure...I believe you. Sounds like you have rumors that are following you.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 Sure sure sure...I believe you. Sounds like you have rumors that are following you. I guess my humor added a bit to those rumors. I joked that we should meet in crowded place, so she wouldn't jump on me at the spot. I also asked her if I could take my harem to see if she'd fit in. When she asked me how many dates I had lately, I asked her if she was refering to the last hour, or day....
IpAncA Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 I guess my humor added a bit to those rumors. I joked that we should meet in crowded place, so she wouldn't jump on me at the spot. I also asked her if I could take my harem to see if she'd fit in. When she asked me how many dates I had lately, I asked her if she was refering to the last hour, or day.... Guess she didn't have a sense of humor. Maybe you should try and make a good name out of yourself.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 I guess the other guy is actually more what she is lookig for. So in a sense I can completely understand this move. But usually it works the other way around. I think it's quite logical she doesn't want to play games and that she wants someone more serious (I can be serious but dating has to be fun at first) (Guess she is more or less looking for someone who would be there for her, judging our conversations). But I don't understand the remarks like I love any place as long as you are there, I can't wait to see you and compliment giving behaviour, combined with the effort she put into chasing me. Judging her behaviour (and my perception is usually right), combined with the stories from friends, I would have thought she had at least three posters of me in her room
bridget_jones Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Wow. Swordfish, you DO have sour grapes. She changed her mind. She likes the other guy better. Get over it (and yourself.)
IpAncA Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 But I don't understand the remarks like I love any place as long as you are there, I can't wait to see you and compliment giving behaviour, combined with the effort she put into chasing me. Judging her behaviour (and my perception is usually right), combined with the stories from friends, I would have thought she had at least three posters of me in her room Do girls usually have you as their phone wallpaper?
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 Leave my grapes out of this please..... I've gone bananas for other things (I'm not english, so more fruity expressions should come from you ) Hey, like that Usher song My Way....
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2007 Author Posted March 18, 2007 Do girls usually have you as their phone wallpaper? One girl actually has a picture of me as a phone wallpaper, and a silly one it is. She uploaded that picture in photoshop and created a really weird picture to prove her point that I look like Tom Cruise (wich isn't true!) Are you psychic?
Reckless Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 I guess my humor added a bit to those rumors. I joked that we should meet in crowded place, so she wouldn't jump on me at the spot. I also asked her if I could take my harem to see if she'd fit in. When she asked me how many dates I had lately, I asked her if she was refering to the last hour, or day.... Could it be.. just a wild guess here so bear with me...could it POSSIBLY have been that after an evening of your charm, your wit, you jokes and limitless humor she decided she didn't like you as much as she thought and that since her period was due any day she would go with someone that made her feel special and wanted? Is it time for the smiley faces and the jumping bunnies yet..?
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