fatty Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 When you are out with your buddies in an awesome saint paddy bar. You see all the new g/f that your buddies and you dont have one. You look at their g/f and how they socialize with all of his freinds to make them feel comfortable and all that small talk. You are enjoying their company and then WHAM out of left feild you start thinking about how your ex was exactly like that!! Then you start asking yourself why did you break up, wouldn't it be awesome if she were here with you doing the same thing as your buddies g/f are doing. The whole ****ing night I spent thinking about my ex and how much I miss her. I feel useless/worthless. I also kept thinking about how lucky my buddies are to have such great gals and that I will never get one. My whole mind set is off track. ****!!!!!! I hate feeling useless. Loneliness is more like it. Feeling lonely and scared.
norajane Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 You just had a bad night - it will pass. Coping is rarely a straight line from hurt to wellness - there are a lot of steps backward during the process. You can be certain there were some great girls at that bar who were thinking about their exes and their bad break-ups and wishing that one of the guys there would take an interest in them. You could have looked around for one of them - the quieter ones, usually, not the social butterflies - and tried to talk to her. Next time, do it!
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