WHY is he doing this, im even crying as im writing this...whats going on in his mind?

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im feeling so hurt and so sad and upset .. that after all 9 months with the guy i believed and loved with all my heart..

everything all the dreams of future is not there now..

he is dating around to see if it helps him to get over me he said he wants to go back to the way he was before i met him.

 

he says he doesnt feel anything for them and its not helping but he somehow knows he will get over me even though that he says he isnt sure what he wants says that he has feelings for me but dont love me, says he misses me alot but dont want to be with me.. he says he will hurt alot and that it hurts now knowing that i'll be with someone else but he'll get over it!

 

im so stupid i even spoke to him on the phone said its me now or never that i dont want to lose what we had that noone will love him like me. He says he isnt 100% sure he wants to be with me and he isnt 100% sure he doesnt.. then i called him again and he said i dont want you, i dont love you.....

 

....i dont need your help, even though he was crying in the last phone call and in the txts before he said he dont wanna loose me forever and that he will always regret it and that i was his everything.

 

what am i supposed to do.. its been 3 weeks and i still cry each night, i said to him i want to be happy with him, i told him to not push love away that he doesnt have to go through pain he can have me but i cant be friends with him anymore it breaks my heart and i cant see this over guy coz its unfair on him..coz if u decide u want me i will have to drop him for you.. then he said he would do that for me..

 

drop all girls but yet... WHY the HELL was he so stubborn and saying at the end i DONT WANT YOU.. i said i hope one day you will realise youre making a mistake! ...

NOW please someone tell me what is he going through?? and WHY??

do guys sometimes need to be single for a while to see if anyone else will feel the same.

will he come back to me i want him so bad but not like this!