WHAT DID I DO ??? Attraction towards a man from work....

[longlegzs80]

I mentioned about this guy in other threads, the one who stares, getting in my line of vision, eyebrow flashes from him and blushes alittle, etc. Anyways, I haven't seen this guy at work for quite some time, and I know I will be giving my 2 weeks notice there within the next day or so. So, what I did was, I asked this one guy who does the same line of work that he does if this guy still works there. Of course I didn't know this hotties name that I was talking about, but the guy wanted me to describe him, so I did, and he said he couldn;t think of who it was. But he told me he will find out his name, and probubly let this hottie know I asked about him.

 

I am very shy and not sure what came over me, but I told this guy it is really no big deal and he said he would find out for me. So, that is that. I feel like a jack ass but at the time it felt so right. All I wanted to know is if this guy still works at the workplace. So, what would this come acress to the guy I am attracted to? I am far from desprite, but I just was curious. I don';t know.

[Erik]

You did the right thing. He will be flattered. If he's not interested, no harm done, you are leaving in two weeks.

[longlegzs80]

You did the right thing. He will be flattered. If he's not interested, no harm done, you are leaving in two weeks.

 

I hope he will be flattered, because when he is around, I could stare at him and get the same response, but I don't do much else. Other then saying a hi or hello, how are you kinda thing. But I don't see him often to do that. Maybe this will let him know I am interested in him, just really shy. Plus, I could feel my face start blushing as soon as I was describing the guy and telling this other guy that this guy is very good looking.

[Erik]

He is probably shy too. I can't really advice you much about how to proceed, as we do things differently where I come from. But I think maybe you'd want to try to get him alone with a bottle of wine, see what happens.

[fairy_dust]

Well of all the signs that you describe sounds like he is definently attracted to you, and as for the co-worker who who does the same line of work he does. He will let the 'little hottie' know that you asked about him. So just keeps you figures cross that he will be around before you should go, and as for 'feeling right' I'd say keep at it to get with him if he is single to mingle:)

[Erik]

Longlegs is a spoof. Check her other posts.

[longlegzs80]

Longlegs is a spoof. Check her other posts.

 

What do you mean I am a spoof???? I'm just trying to figure out if the guy is definitly interested or whatever.

[Erik]

Take a hike, longlegs.

[longlegzs80]

Take a hike, longlegs.

 

Why? I am not doing another wrong. You need to clear somethign up as to why you have a problem with me all of a sudden.

[Erik]

How are your plans for a hot threesome going?

[Erik]

All right, I can't find that particular thread. If I'm wrong, sorry. You've had my advice, invite him for a glass of wine, make cosy, everything will take care of itself.

[Erik]

I have been scanning your posts, seem I owe you an apology.

 

Here's my two cents:

 

Few men will be offended if a woman makes a pass at him. I realise you are shy, but you don't have to assault him, showing interest is usually enough. Asking about him was a good move, if it pays off, invite him for a bottle of wine, as I said. Alcohol is the most common cure for shyness, and most men will instantly understand what it is about. If he declines, well, too bad. That happens in love.

 

If the guy is VERY insecure, maybe he will decline even if he is interested, but then maybe you should cast your eyes upon a less shy person.

 

Just don't get totally plastered, you'll have moral hangovers even if you didn't do anything inappropriate.

[longlegzs80]

I have one question, do guys look at women to just look or if they look at you several times, it means they are interested? My guy friend told me guys only look at a women if they are interested.