dariendrake Posted March 17, 2007 Posted March 17, 2007 I am 28 and have never had sex or a long term meaningful relationship. I am caught in a pattern of living ( or the lack there of),how in the he** do I get out of it. Even my friends are at there wits end trying to get me out into the world of dating and romance. I'm just straight up scared to death of playing the field. I would rather just find ms.right and have that be he end of it but I know that will never happen. how can I get my self out of this endless cycle? how do you go about getting a women to go out with you let alone go to bed with her? I want a family but that takes finding the right person. women have it easy. they have everything they need to have a family, they can just go down to your local spermbank or the nearest bar and get the only component they'er missing us guys that want to have a family have to impress a women into letting us be apart of there lives first, and even then theres no guarentee. I am very shy. I had a friend latly tell me I just need to let go. I don't do drugs, I don't drink, I like to be quiet. I don't like bars. I don't like clubs. where do you find quiet people? I've tryed datin sites and most of the people on them don't trust anyone, ( me included I guess) or there bots andE-mail pirates. any ideas?
Author dariendrake Posted March 17, 2007 Author Posted March 17, 2007 12 more years and I will be the 40 yearold virgin!
someone2 Posted March 17, 2007 Posted March 17, 2007 If you don't like bars, there is no reason to force yourself to go there. But... 1. Why don't your friends set you up with a single friend of theirs? 2. Did you think about joining a book club? There are lots of quite, intelligent people there. 3. Also, did you think about volunteer work? There are lots of girls there. Just initial suggestions Also, stop thinking about the 40 year old virgin movie. This will not happen to you, since being aware of a problem is the first step to solving it. Your problem will be solved very soon.
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