Guest Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 I need to know the best way to let my OM know how I really feel without scaring him away. I would be devastated if he no longer wanted to see me, but I want to tell him and would love to hear him say the same thing but I am afraid of what he might NOT say. I've known this person for about 6 years but have only recently been involved and we have become increasingly more involved in the past 3 months. I guess part of me thinks its too early to bring that up...and feel confused. Incidentally, the current relationship I am in now is the result of a divorce due to my involvement in that marriage. It can happen -- I don't know if I'm expecting that to happen again - I don't even know if that's what I want...Can you please give me some perspective on how you may have felt - would you have welcomed such expressions and emotions from your "partner" or flee in the other direction? We have always been extremely close before being involved...it sometimes seems like the relationship that SHOULD have been.
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