numsey Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 Okay, here's the deal. My fiance and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. We tried to do the "stay friends" thing and still hang out but I told her that it was way to hard on me. Now, I have been trying to look at it as us being over and not getting back together to try and move on but she keeps calling me at work and home. I'm as nice as I can be on the phone and never mean to her but it is extremly hard on me, especially when she says that she misses me and that she has dreams about me. As much as I don't want to lose her I also want this pain to end. I don't want to look desperate or look mean and evil because she will see right thru that. She knows that I'm not a mean person. I can't even kill a spider without feeling overly guilty. How can I tell her that I don't want to be her friend and chit chat on the phone without closing the door on the fact that I'm still open on working things out and getting back together? Someone help please, I'm completly lost on this.
kimberlyk Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 You have to be honest with her about your feelings. You are only cheating yourself and her out of a proper healing by not saying how you really feel.
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