DelawareDave Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 I broke up with a girl after 3.5 years of a relationship. I met another girl at thanksgiving - incredibly beautiful and intelligent. She pursued me. On our third date together we were in her place when suddenly she said there was something wrong. She said that she had never connected with someone like she had with me, that she fancied me, that everything was perfect but that she had a gut feeling in her stomach that it was wrong, and that if she tried to fight the guy feeling it made her sick. Maybe it was just as well as I was still getting over my previous relationship. But it still left me feeling really confused and upset that something that could potentially have been so good was not to be. 6 weeks on I met her at a party in my friends house and we seemed to be getting on really well. She was giving me lots of attention and its clear that there is a chemistry there between us. I came across confident and didnt make any moves on her. I know that i will meet her again over the coming months and I am hoping she will come around to things. seeing her again made me realise I am totally over my ex. I am completely smitten with this girl. She is heading off on holidays soon for a few weeks and i hope to see her when she returns. I am wondering if I should persist with sms or just let it go and see what happens next time we meet. Any ideas would be welcome. I feel like pressurising her will send her the wrong way. I think she might be scared of commitment. All the best, Dave
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